I am a single mom of a 10month old baby.. The father of my daughter has not been in the picture for the last 10months... I personally don't want my child around him at all due to his excessive pot smoking & him making 'dab' and almost killing himself oh and him making a Bong.. He's not on the birth certificate at all & has not provided anything for her since she was born.. Now he is pushing me to Allow him to see her.. She has a slight fever from her shots yesterday & im telling him that and he said okay, keep me posted because j want to see her I can't sleep at night cause she always on my mind.. Like why now? I'm not playing the sympathy game or pity game... What do people suggest I do? I haven't asked him for anything from him because I personally don't need the help at all. We've been perfectly fine without him and my baby is perfect! She has the love and support she needs by everyone around her. I don't even get child support from him because state of ca you need to have them on the BC & prove he is the father... I dont know what to do..