With my first, I waited like 2 months because I got stitches and it still hurt but with my second I didn't tear and had a smooth delievery so I only waited 2 weeks. The important thing to do is to listen to your body, you will know when you are ready and just like junesmommy said, do not let him pressure you.

Now I'm not going to tell you to wait another year girl. I mean you want your man, right? Lol but don't listen to anyone else's early experiences. Doesn't work for everyone. I would just ho with 6+. It's best. I ripped pretty bad to and even after 6+ it was still uncomfortable. Don't let him pressure you before that 6 weeks is up though. Help him another way. He does have needs but not before your 6 weeks.

we had sex again at 3 weeks. it was a little uncomfortable so after that we waited another week and everything was just fine. I had a vbirth and no stitches.

@junesmommy_15, I was just wondering because My Fiance is pressuring me a Lil bit this time around.... not really interested in sex right now Google is worrying me even more. with my first I waited a Year and half before I did anything but I ripped pretty bad.. and we were scared to get pregnant to soon.

Just take the doctors advice. It is best to wait 6+ weeks. It was almost 7 before I did.

I did two weeks after, I had vaginal delivery no tears no stitches ....it wasn't painful a Lil uncomfortable at first tho

It was a couple weeks. I had one or two stitches. It was slightly painful but no infection. I'm sure if you have a larger rip it could pose risk of infection. Men's penises actually have a lot of foreign bacteria, and they can cause utis so I'd ask your doc for sure.