I feel like a bad mom. I've felt so disconnected with my son since I had him (he's 4 months now) especially since I had to go right back to work a month after he was born. My mother in law has been his caregiver while I'm gone and he sleeps with them since I work nights. I take care of him all day till I nap for work. I've recently just started feeling a strong bond with him since I'm quitting my job and he sleeps with me now but I feel like he hates me and likes his grandma better. Every time he cries I can't get him to stop and she can. He cries when we are out running errands and stops as soon as we get home and he's around his grandparents. Is it possible he sees them as his parents? I feel like I'm failing.