**QUESTION!!!**** My best friend is... well a "one upper". you know one of those persons that no matter what you said they did it better or been there done that. when her life was simpler (i.e one child and spouse wasnt cheating all the time) everything was all about her. She would brag about everything and I mean everything. New car. new house. new washer and dryer. how she is regular and shits everyday. etc. I shared her joy because my friend was happy and things were good for her. now she has 2 kids and one on the way and her boyfriend is basically nonexistent. my heart hurts for her because I understand the pain. my thing is this now my life has changed for the better she gives me shit. I'm a sahm and she says all I do is sit at home all day. I tell her that I just got my daughter a new bed and she replys "oh I don't have that luxury of shopping everyday." I got married and she replies "you think it's gonna last?" I have known this woman for 16 years been through thick and thin with her. what do I do when I feel like the friendship has ran it's course?
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It definitely ran its course. It's sad how she can't be happy for you when you were always happy for her. Seems like she's the type to just play victim so people can feel bad for her. Which isn't fair. Again she should be happy for you yet every good thing you have going on she has something negative to say. Sometimes friends just grow apart and maybe that's what's happening. You should definitely distance yourself cause you don't need that negativity in your life.
@amaperalta03, thank you for your input. I'm just struggling with the guilt I know I will feel. it'll be said that I abandoned her in this hard time. the dad didn't want kids but now there will be three. plus he isn't supportive at all. anyways I have moved about 30 mins to an hour away so maybe the distance with help with any space needed.