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Christina ✨
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I don't understand why everyone and their mom wants to come down for the birth. My husbands ex girlfriend just invited…

I don't understand why everyone and their mom wants to come down for the birth. My husbands ex girlfriend just invited herself down too! I'm about to say nobody can come. I'm going to be tired and overwhelmed and the last thing I need is 20 people in my little home thinking they're "helping" by being there. 👌

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tyrataylor

TyTaylor

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

Ex girlfriend wow lol

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lcjc_mama4

MelissaV

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Wtf ex girlfriend?! 😂😂😂

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clari22

Claribel

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

you are the one who decides that, no one else, dont let someone elses takes decicions for you, so let them know that!!!! giiirrlll wat u mean by exgirlfriend???😱😲

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breezy1993

Bri

ex girlfriend hell no

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christimary0

Christina ✨

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@sarahssmommiee, @mv92 @clari22 @breezy1993 this is a female that he hasn't seen since his sophomore year of high school. But for whatever reason she sticks around. His mom absolutely adores her and I've tried to accept her as just a part of the family to an extent. I accepted her friend request on Facebook, I don't say a word when he speaks to her. I understand this is someone who has been around for a while. But this is my baby... Why in the world does she want to come see my baby? I've never met this girl!

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breezy1993

Bri

I don't know if I could handle that. You are a patient woman @christimary0

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clari22

Claribel

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

@christimary0, oooh helll nooo girl, labor and delivery its only for the people you love, husband and mom maybe thatssss allllll, no one else, i wouldnt let her go in, hell noo!!!

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clari22

Claribel

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

i am sorry, but thats no fair, dont let them push u down, like i said, ur the wife and mom to be and the one that takes those decisions in that momment! good luck!

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christimary0

Christina ✨

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@breezy1993, I don't want to seem like it's a jealousy or insecurity issue if I make a big deal about it. I don't see her as a threat to my relationship, I'm just annoyed that she thinks she has any right to be a part of any of it. It's as if she doesn't understand boundaries.

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christimary0

Christina ✨

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@clari22, babies make people crazy I swear!

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tyrataylor

TyTaylor

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

It's not even about insecurities or jealous why would any girl wanna stick around their ex family especially when their ex is married and having a baby she should have been moved on with her life starting her own family she's still trying to hold on to them for some reason and her and whoever else thinks it ok for her to be around u or you baby or even your husband is out of there mind speak your mind don't let anything happen you don't want to happen you don't need to make everybody happy that's your day your birth enjoy it@christimary0

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christimary0

Christina ✨

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@sarahssmommiee, you're absolutely right. I hate to become all bossy about this but people don't understand boundaries apparently. I'm already going to be uncomfortable and overwhelmed, I don't need all these extra people on top of me.

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tyrataylor

TyTaylor

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

Right but don't think of it as being bossy think of it as simply stating what u want lol if your uncomfortable tell them that all that should be in the room anyways is u and ur husband maybe ur parents if u want but everybody else no they can come visit one at a time cause trust me at the hospital your not gonna be as tired but when u get home it all hits you and your going to be exhausted so do what u need to do to feel comfortable and for that ex idont know why she thinks she coming I hope she didn't think she was gone hold the baby hell no lol she better wait til someone sends her pictures @christimary0

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My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile…

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