Ladies!!!!! please stop letting these men be your number one priority! If you're having problems with your S/O then try your best to resolve it respectfully and logically. But if it feels like you're talking to a break wall or beating a dead horse then with all do respect get the Fuck out of there!!!!! You won't change him and just because you have a child or children together won't make a difference either sadly. You ladies are too beautiful and strong to let someone steal your joy...time and energy. Yes loneliness sucks marbles but it's not the end of the world! Allow yourselves enough time to heal you first and everything else will fall into place. But until then heal you and love yourself first.