So here I am watching birthing videos and suddenly I get scared shitless about doing this... Pushing a baby out just looks sooo painful and I can't imagine doing it myself:(. I can almost feel the pain talking about it lol. Tell me something good😩😂.
@kala_elise, yes I'm definitely not interested in an epidural. I know it'll hurt but it's good to know that pushing doesn't hurt as badly as contractions for most women. That's what scares me lol! No epi for me. I want it as natural as possible.
if you can do it without an epidural, then don't get one coz it only prolongs the process! my first labor was wayyyyyyy longer than my second and third coz I got an epidural the first time and you can't feel yourself pushing.
to me pushing the baby is the easiest part. the contractions are the worst but epidural will be your best friend
@jesjeslovesyou, This is my 3rd time giving birth in dec..its been 13yrs since the last time i gave birth and my other son is 20.had him natural..I recently saw videos on youtube a few days ago..i m surprised how close up they are video typing the live birth..kinda. freaked me out..because...we only feel it we don't see it like our spouse or people in room. it was defiantly breathtaking...to watch and yes. most women in those videos are in pain..but.it really is so dif to exp it yourself..this is why women give birth..we make a placenta..grow a human..make blood(our periods)and make milk too..men would die from period cramps alone hahah
@augustbaby2016400, @lovely.mocha @kee89 @sherrynygirl @mazeyy09
Thank you sooo much better. You all have definitely helped ease my worries😅😅. He'll be here any day now.
I just had a baby 8 days ago it's not terrible the contractions hurt but pushing isn't to terrible and you pretty much forget it all after you get that amazing little baby put on your chest !
Pushing the baby out is the easy part it's the contractions that's not a joke 😩😩 epidural saved my life lol
I agree with @sherrynygirl. This is my 3rd pregnancy. The contractions are the worst and pushing is not as bad. Because of the friction and your baby's hair, it will probably sting when you're pushing. The end result is so worth it, though. 😊
i have given birth 2x...the contractions to me was painful..the baby coming out of the vagina doesn't hurt kinda felt like a pinch in your inner thigh s as long as you dialte the full #10 you will be okay
Stop watching them! Lol it's really not the bad you have think about the end result not the process lol
yes it hurts but once its done you will forget all about the pain once you see that baby of yours 😄
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
I do love the way people say you will know when your in labour and having contractions well I will be honest I didn't know and my pains weren't that severe till I was fully dilated I'm sure everyone has different pain levels
Do I ask for painkillers now or is it too early? Starting to become more and more painful 😣😐
We took vows....I do not believe in remarried...to death do us apart... forever...no retry.... even if your wife or husband died or divorce. What do you think about this??
what to do about round ligament pain?!? I just wanna die!! It feels like something/someone is stabbing me!!
no, pushing wasn't that bad. it actually gives you a little bit of relief from the contractions while you're pushing (not clue why)...