Just sitting here thinking. At 21 I decided to plan a baby with my ex, thinking he was the one and I could marry and have a fam w. Only issue was this decision was mine, not one time did I seek God in it, instead I tried to create my own reality. Truth is he simply was not and is not my husband.I did get pregnant, but I also saw his true colors after becoming pregnant sadly, and it wasn't pretty. So now that I'm able to sit and reflect I love my son..but i see that sometimes s person isn't always who you think they are no matter how long you've known them. Sometimes one needs to be alone, and get them selves together before jumping into a relationship.
Thank God for that wisdom and beautiful baby! The Lord has clearly brought you a long way. 🤗
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.
I don't think she gets it.
I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
@alexislindo814, Thankyou. Yes lol I've been through some things, but all in all He is Good and willing to meet us where we are at!