Ok. so I promise I won't post anything else. But I just need to vent. So sick and tired of people's dumb comments. I'm sitting in this office and this lady asks me what my son is mixed with, I reply "he's American " and keep it pushing. She then says " I love when they come with light skin and blue eyes." it's ok to have your own feelings, but you see my first born sitting there and she's clearly not "light skin w blue eyes" but you decide to male such a. comment still..i mean odk maybe I'm being overly sensitive but In my household we don't point out differences, I just don't want her feeling bad. Like why not comment on both my kids if you're gonna comment on one.