What's bil? people and their abbreviations 😞 what you were before is no indicator but when you say your bored because you cant get intoxicated or high is a indicator. your the judgemental ones who want to pursue people to agreeing with your bad habits

@selenaanddaniel no problem girl. Hell people do tons of things to have fun, I wouldn't classify weed as negative I don't personally but I know tons that smoke it they fun by as hell, as per alcohol that's legal and very normal lol. she just wanted something to bitch about.

@blackbutterfly, look ain't no one perfect at this parent thing it's not like I'm tell my kid to do what I did or am not going to do it in front of them. No one tell three kids to get locked up or to kill someone or rape someone or rob someone but hey it happens so life will be life

as someone who's going to be a parent saying being a drunk or pothead is fun is a bad sign of your future parenting skills

it's not judgemental it was advice and nothing wrong with it your bored because you cant drink or smoke but your pregnant and depressed because you can't do it as if there's no other hobbies and activities you could do besides being drunk or high

Its so worth it in the end! @selenaanddaniel

@kbrown91, I'm saying I'm so done with it just a few more months 👌🏽✊🏽

@brinnersmommy20, appreciate it ✊🏽

@blackbutterfly, so why should know i worry about anything if I was smoking and drinking before I found out that I was pregnant I found out right away I stop everything because it's not fair to my child to be a alcohol / weed baby I'm not stupid or low life it's hard when you crave what you've been doing since 14 years old I'm not proud of it put its hell of hard to stop cold turkey. If you got pressure into it that says a lot. me i never did I did it cause I want to and I could afford it it was something to do it's fun.

@selenaanddaniel, that's all I do too, work and come home and clean. its soooo annoying.

@blackbutterfly, don't take it as if your judging ? that was very judgmental and not your place whatsoever. You have no right to call her a low life, that was very RUDE and disrespectful & if you're gonna judge maybe you should find another site bc this isn't the place. She doesn't need schooling on her life. She clearly cares about her baby, and is not doing those things. don't call someone a low life bc they enjoy things you don't like !

I never said you had kids please learn to read I said maybe with a baby since you said your pregnant. and it's other ways to relax your like my bf he liked to drink heavily 12 beers on the weekend to relax it's not necessary and I'll tell him and anyone else the same thing until they stop start harming your body like that! don't take it as if I'm judging you it'd just a tip I too had a drink before finding out I'm 4 months pregnant but that doesn't mean because I can't have 1 which I don't want to ever drink he persuaded me and I felt bad finding out I was pregnant during that time anywhere it's not worth it to be drinking

@blackbutterfly, yo i didn't have kids I have my own place provide for my self it's not like I had a kid before this yes I worked long shift I came home wanted to drink to smoke to chill relaxed I still had my bills paid for its what we did. It's not like they have kids we're responsible

you need better friends you got low life friends nears your were a low life too who smoked and drank every day or weekend maybe with a baby you'll change and do different things