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Desiree Campbell

any tips on how to be a single parent while the cheating spouse is shacking up with a nasty female and playing house…

any tips on how to be a single parent while the cheating spouse is shacking up with a nasty female and playing house with her and playing daddy to her kids? I know I can't tell my one year old daughter that daddy is not coming back (his stuff is still here cause he hasn't come got it, he doesn't know that I know and IDK when he plans to show up and she's supposedly carrying his son and is due in 3 months and the kid ain't gaining weight it's sitting at a pound, but there could be 2-4 possible fathers and they are naming him Corbin Frances Campbell and that's the name we picked out, but now he's not home and I'm not supposed to know that he's cheating but he fails to realize he's been seen publicly with her) I'm so hurt and pissed off and sad... he's wasting my time and three years worth of memories for a thot... that's why in two months I'm leaving Tulsa without him... but I need some positive thoughts and vibes ladies cause I'm scared.

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desiree918

Desiree Campbell

but his dads stuff is here...

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына-младенца

He has no intention of coming back to you. He may come for his stuff (although I know people who just bought new stuff). But he's done in the relationship. If you have proof file for what you need- divorce, child support. I'm sorry you're going through this

desiree918

Desiree Campbell

I'm waiting til I get this job before I do go file for divorce and child support..

desiree918

Desiree Campbell

his stuff is still here..... my enraged soul says tear it all up and throw it away and I can't even bear to look at my marriage license.

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына-младенца

Seems like he has no plans of coming back. So you just have to keep going forward. File for child support

desiree918

Desiree Campbell

he's left us sitting here flat out broke and I'm so grateful for my brother and sister in law for staying with me during this difficult time and I'm donating plasma to pay for her diapers and wipes and Friday I'm going to try to get hired on at where my sister in law Christina works and it's ten dollars an hour and weekly pay of 400 it's the temp agency and full time it's 800 every two weeks.

desiree918

Desiree Campbell

he hasn't shown up or called yet and every time I call it goes straight to voicemail...

katwillbrand

Katherin ✨

Мама сына (1 год)

Wow it's so unrealistic what men do for a hoe... you need to confront him like @bonniesue said! You need to think about your daughter, she should always be your number 1 motivation... good luck momma

bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына-младенца

Why haven't you confronted him? I think it's not that he thinks you don't know he just does not care. You're stronger than you know. Your child is so young you have no to decide how you raise her. Are you going to let her see you be cheated on and treated poorly or are you going to be strong and independent?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here...…

Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here... and he is talking to the girl (me.) But he doesn't know it's me.... he is lying saying I cheated on him, and that my name is jule, and clearly it's lacy. And he only got with me bc I was a good mom.... but just yesterday he came and stayed with me, we had sex all night... he is telling me one thing, and her (me) another... lol I'm thinking on just walking away... and yes I'm 24 weeks pregnant with his child.