I need to vent 😢: I just got off the phone with my boyfriend and I'm very pissed off. So, in the beginning of my…

@ingridm89, don't feel bad if you do that ... One blow up won't matter

also baby came out perfectly healthy

same exact with me I measured small my belly wasn't huge even at full term and I didn't get s belly either until like 5 or 6 months I don't think anything is wrong it's just your SO being maybe worried and being insensitive without maybe realizing it.

@_mrs.v, I'm 5'6 so I'm tall. Even at work no one can tell I'm pregnant. I look like I've put on a couple of pounds, but that's normal. I just wish everyone would stop giving me a hard time.

@madison0916, that's exactly what I told him and he just ignored what I said. He was just quiet and the last thing he said was "you better eat more".

@billyllianna, I'm always sad these days and I try not to be because I feel like it will affect the baby. I'm so sensitive now, but I feel like I don't get a break. I told him it hurts me feelings and he said "you hurt your own feelings".

@mommyofallboys671, My mother told me usually with your first child you don't show more and with your second one you tend to show more. I try to explain to him but he is so hard headed sometimes.

@ingridm89, dont! pregnancy is strange and new for you. body reacts different, even if you aren't eating all that much, baby will be fine. just hang in there.

@klove23, I try and I even tried today and he always goes like "nope" or you hardly eat and that's only because I try to eat healthy. I eat salads and vegetables and it's still not good enough for him. I told him "what more do you want from me?" he goes to every appointment with me. I feel like his mom is telling him shit, but come on every woman is different.

I get that a lot from my fiance buhh I jus let it blow away I use too only eat a lil bit n my family would get mad buhh every doctors visit I went too they would check on baby she was perfectly fine n doctors told me what ever am doing keeping doing it n now that am on my third trimester almost gonna give birth I eat a lot more buhh its true what they say every woman is different

@bodaciousb6, I feel like literally telling everyone to fuxk off. I just feel so useless.

I'm almost 20 wks nd honestly I'm barely showing. It looks lik I just gained lik 10 lbs. I didn't start to show until 18wks. But I am short I hear when your tall you show way less

@nissii1994, That's what I'm trying to prevent, but I feel like that's what's going to end up happening and I'm gonna be the bad guy.

@pikapal, I think so also. I'm just so tired of it. I feel like I'm put down so much.

I didn't show until I was 28 weeks and my bellly literally popped out over night. You don't need to eat a lot. During pregnancy you're supposed to add 300 calories to your regular diet if he thinks you need to legit "eat for two" it can actually be dangerous for you and baby. Tell him to fuck off you're doing what you need to and your baby is perfectly healthy. If there's a problem then he can worry but until then I'd just keep doing you mama.

i wore my noemal clothes and didnt really show till week 32 with my first i lost weight but my son always measured fine he was born at 40w 3d at 7lbs 11ozs. everybody is different and every pregnancy is different. im pregnant with second and grow oout of my normal clothes at week 14

@ingridm89, just try to educate him because 9/10 guys don't know a damn thing when it comes to out bodies let alone pregnancy lol because that's just ridiculous! He should be encouraging you to eat healthy especially since you can't eat much in the first place..

@leslie527,

@leslie527, I feel like I'm going to be tiny. The thing is I'm tall also. I've told him before that my mom didn't start showing with me until I was almost 7 months. My feelings are just so hurt.

@klove23, See that gives me hope. It's not my fault I'm not showing. I'm trying so hard. I really am. He gets mad at me when I eat salads too....

@leslie527, im literally like that right now. My clothes still fit me, but the baby is find. He is measuring long, and is healthy. That's all I care about. I just feel so sad.

And my belly as of last week at 34 weeks pregnant. 8 1/2 months, everyone carries different..

My first trimester was hell only thing I could keep down was water and very small portions of fruit.. My husband and both our families would give me shit for it to.. Until I started screaming and crying at them cuz it was just to hard for me to eat normal. I hope you get your appetite back I know it's hard but as long as doctor says baby is ok u should be ok to

this is my belly at 22 weeks

@ingridm89, tell him to pipe the fuck down. showing around that time isn't a big deal. Every one is different as long as you're trying momma, you're doing awesome.

You're barely 16 weeks!! I have a friend who stayed with a small belly until she gave birth to a 7 pound baby. You would've thought it was just a beer belly lol every women's body is different. If anything it's probably his parents or family telling him all that :/

Don't let people stress you out I wasn't "showing" until 6 or 7 months as long as the baby is measuring fine they need to keep their opinions to their self! also your baby is still tiny at that point so whatever food you are able to keep down will give them the nutrients that they need

I would tell everyone else to mind their business, if Dr. says your measuring fine. then baby is fine, I'm almost 9 months and I'm not even that big. at 16 weeks I wasn't showing at all not even at 22 weeks. have your bf go with you to the Dr. And have the dr. tell him that everything is fine..