Kinda sick of hearing that I should be doing all the night feeds because I'm 'not at work anymore'
AND!?
Yes my OH has to get up and go to work in the morning but I also have a baby I have to take care of day in day out (a very clingy baby) which in my eyes is a full time job in itself!
He only does 1 night feed with him and he doesn't even mind getting up he tells me he wants to help, it's other people saying it making me feel lazy or like I'm not doing enough 😤
I get why it makes sense that I do all the night feeds in a way because I can nap when the baby naps during the day, except my baby naps for an hour if that on a good day! Soooo yeah I need my sleep aswell 🙄🖕🏼
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@peachesx, YES. 👏🏼 my partner understands although sometimes gets a bit arsey about getting up (only out of tiredness) it's other people making me feel like I'm an evil bitch for expecting some help during the night feeds! God knows how single parents do it, I don't think I could 🙄
@sara-lou, fair enough! Whenever my partner gets home from work is when my boy finally decides it's nap time so he doesn't even have to do much in the evening 😂
I do all the night feeds as my husband has to get up for work & even though I have 2 kids to look after I honestly don't mind @abbylouise Saying that, I do expect him to help during the day time & evenings once he's back from work. In the beginning he'd make a joke like he's worked all day & I'd say I work 24/7 when do I get my break? Lol.
🙄 I get the same thing but people forget that the house stil needs to be taken care off otherwise they find something else to complain about ✋🏽
@peachesx, Hahaha I'll say that next time someone tries making me feel bad! 😂 Think people forget how exhausting and demanding a baby can be 🙄 x