At the moment my 6 month old stays at her dads one night a week. It is always Tuesday's as he asked me to arrange a day so he could book it off work and he hasn't booked it off at all. He never comes to collect his own child and never looks after his own child, he's a functioning alcoholic so is often in the pub if not a work. He still lives with his mum (he's 26) and he has a son who has a bed in his room. So neither children have their own room and my daughter is in her own room now so I would expect the same at her dad's house (if he had one). I also have his mum on FB and she posted that status last night knowing full well she is collecting my DD this morning for the night and that I can see that status. They have his son Friday to Sunday (they had him all last week) so there's clearly extreme favouritism as they haven't seen my DD in a week but had his son two days ago for a whole week. Their house is a tip and they smoke in there when the children are asleep. Should I just refuse overnight stay until he has his own place or all together? I really don't know why I should suffer by letting my baby go overnight when she should still be with her mum when it's not appreciated. I'm feeling a contact centre where I know he's actually interesting with his own kids. He also gives me £60 a month which is total BS🙄