am I in the wrong for wanting my child around his/her step father and his family and not my baby's real father? I'm being told by my family and the father's family I am but tbh ...

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am I in the wrong for wanting my child around his/her step father and his family and not my baby's real father? I'm being told by my family and the father's family I am but tbh they don't know everything that he done to me and my reasons why... I need advice from moms going through the same thing as me 😒 tired of stressing over it

FaithAnn Hamilton · Answer

they won't put him on the birth certificate if I refuse to and tell them the reasons why he's a drug abuser a women beater and a rapist I doudt he is going to ever be in his child's life just saying

Nicole Marie · Answer

Note that the baby's father can go to court and they'll do a mandatory DNA test and then he will be put on the birth certificate.

FaithAnn Hamilton · Answer

Yea I keep telling them that but they don't listen. and i would do the same thing if my child's grandma did that

Korahleah Sanchez · Answer

yeah those reasons right there should be enough for anyone to see! my sons grandma is a pill popper and i trusted her one time and she left my son in house alone so she could go get her pills. i was beyond pissed and thats when i cut all ties.

FaithAnn Hamilton · Answer

thanks @korahleah_11 I wasn't planing on putting him on there anyways I mean I don't want him near the baby till he's drug free don't have a drug headed gf  (not out of jealousy) and don't live on his car 😒

Korahleah Sanchez · Answer

been there. its your choice and your baby. if you dont put baby daddy on the bc then he doesnt get rights anyways. do what you feel is best and at the end of the day your protecting your child and thats what moms do.

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