Another question: My FIL made Delos a piece of toast with jam on it and was gonna try to feed it to him without flat out…
Another question: My FIL made Delos a piece of toast with jam on it and was gonna try to feed it to him without flat out telling me he made some for him. I'm not okay with him having sugary stuff like that. Nor am I okay with my FIL making him food without consulting me first. He doesn't know what I have been directed to give him by his pediatrician. I appreciate that he is trying but he needs to run stuff past us first before making food that's gonna be wasted. He made it right before nap time too so when he asked if Delos wanted to help him eat breakfast which is not the wording he should have used in the first place, he should have made sure we didn't have other plans or that he didn't just eat. He just had a bottle before he made the food.
Sorry I post a lot about what urks me about my FIL. It's just a way to let it out because I can't talk to my husband about it nor can I talk to my MIL.
Kedra·
В ожидании первенца
I agree with @Tayek and @Momtobeagain ive seen my mom do it when my niece is here. She doesn't intentionally do the wrong thing but she tries to "help out" and it's just in her own way. & my mom is who she is, she can try to work on it but she will always do what she thinks is best first - if that makes any sense...
Kedra·
В ожидании первенца
Tbh ur gonna always have that challenge of ppl doing stuff that u don't want for ur kids and it's always 10x worse when u live with someone else
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
I understand that. thank you. @momtobeagain
Roselys·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
maybe he is just trying to be nice.
Heaven·
В ожидании первенца
Well maybe when the weather gets better y'all plan on going in the mean time you can look forward to it, I know it's beyond hard living with the in laws it's hard living with anyone and sometimes you just need a break.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
we did that like 3 weeks ago for our anniversary. I wish weather was better or I'd say we need to go camping. @mamabear9456
Heaven·
В ожидании первенца
Grab a tent and go camping or go fishing for the day or take a trip to the lake
Heaven·
В ожидании первенца
Sounds like you've been having a lot of issues with him lately. Maybe y'all should go on a little getaway together go get a hotel or something and have some space.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
can't afford a place of our own. can barely afford to pay car payments. don't have any extra money. any that we have automatically goes to our kids. @tayek. I appreciate the offer. I do.
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@ssdj4, housing, because you guys are living two separate lifestyles and when we have preferences, it's better to have our own space. But never mind, I wasn't trying to get in your business. Just offering a little help because what you guys really need is your own place.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
resources for what? @tayek
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
it's isn't a health problem. it's a personal choice we have made for him. as I have diabetes and my FIL should know better as he has diabetes too and always tells me to eat right. @tayek
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
If the baby has a health problem, you MUST talk. Don't be confrontational, but this is your child's health here. What state are you in? I'd love to help you find some resources. That's not an environment you need to be in.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
I'm afraid to talk to him. Last time we told him how we want things to go, he got drunk and tried to beat up my husband. This was 2 years ago before kids but still. I don't want to have to deal with that and lose our last place to live. :/ @tayek
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You're gonna have to talk to him...or you're gonna deal with them always trying to go against your wishes. I'd be mad too, because I have kids with food allergies and no matter how yummy or innocent something is, it could really harm them. You're gonna have to level with them, WITHOUT being anything but matter of fact, and tell them what and why. If they don't respect it, you'll know to be extra vigilant.
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
we live with him. @dawnrose
dawn·
В ожидании первенца
does he live with you guys?