What is the roles and responsibilities as a god parents? I feel like my best friend is being used. I don't think she should buy diapers for the baby if both parents are doing great. There's more to it then just that.
As a nina myself, I agree that the only things were supposed to do is spend time and love little one. My gdaughters mom has never asked me for money. Occasionally she'll ask me to buy her something that she absolutely needs like for school if she can't afford it herself but it never to pay like an extreme amount. I would because I love her but at the same time thats her mothers responsibility.
Carla MartinezМама сына (5 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
See that's not right. I don't think you should expect anything from the godparents.
DanielleВ ожидании первенца
@baby1004, see it should come from the heart. That's what we were saying. Like there shouldn't be hints or gestures thrown out there. @showersoverflowers exactly what we thought too. Cuz she was bitchy last week and they were working together my friends had to transfer money from savings to the regular account she saw how much she had and was being all kiss ass smh.
Carla MartinezМама сына (5 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
My sons godfather is great. We don't ask him for anything just love my son and spend time with him. On his own he will buy my son clothes mainly because he has a shopping problem. every Easter he buys his outfit and and he will randomly text and ask for his clothes and shoe size. We don't expect anything from him tho because he isn't his child he's ours and our responsibility
C.Мама двоих (младенец)
woof. it sounds like she's just using her for money... nothing godly about that. @junesmommy_15 thank you
DanielleВ ожидании первенца
@showersoverflowers, exactly thank you. She's taking herself to the extremes. She thinks for the babies first birthday that the godparents should throw the party.
C.Мама двоих (младенец)
It's cultural and individual. my family believes god parents to have a big responsibility to raise a child to know Jesus. That means spending time with the child outside of normal events, being a great role model, providing love and discipline if they see something happening that shouldn't etc. providing financially isn't exactly something we expect though. That is the parents responsibility
Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?
What do YOU judge Clearly, no one is a perfect parent nor do we know everything. But what’s something you judge a parent off of or just irks you?
"Child support is for absent parents NOT failed relationships"
I need a preggie buddy. feel like I don't fit in on here lol. #hormones its hard being a single parent and ftm
Advice from gentle parents So ill just preface this by saying I am not a gentle parent.
Danielle·В ожидании первенца
@mrshodges, exactly. The baby has both parents that work and you guys technically had the baby and you guys aren't broke. So buy her diapers she's your responsibility. Smh. It's very disappointing that she is acting that way. My friend has always bought coffee and this chick doesn't even buy her anything back. Very selfish and very self centered
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