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Jessica Alderman
Jessica Alderman
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I feel like a bad momma because sometimes when Emma is being impatient or wont stop fussing and I've gone down the whole…

I feel like a bad momma because sometimes when Emma is being impatient or wont stop fussing and I've gone down the whole list to see what she needs I just feel like I'm so angry and stressed that I wanna throw her away or hand her to her grandma so I can breath for a second. Am I a bad momma?

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sandycheeks

sandra usherМама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

and that's where you jumped to conclusions😉 I didn't mean you need help as in your crazy. I meant help as in you need someone to help you deal with her when you get frustrated. like it or not. I don't care. I said my opinion. I didn't say you were a bad mom. even tho you asked if you were. if I would have said yes you probably would still be trying to defend your words. but I didn't. cause being aggravated doesn't make you a bad mom. I said the words you chose pissed me off. I'd say it to any other person. if they had put that. its not against you personally. I'm very well an adult that's why I haven't said anything disrespectful yet ☺

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mommaalderman

Jessica AldermanМама двоих (младенец)

Well when I get frustated I never have and never fill throw my baby down, so chill. I don't need help. I just explained to you I'm not good at expressing my feelings so when I say that I mean I need to set her down and let her scream a bit before I actually get upset. I'm not one of them mean, crazy ass momma's and it pisses me off that you think I need help just because I'm bad at expressing my feelings. It makes me more mad then anything when someone abuses their child and it makes me furious when someone jumps to conclusions. I opened myself to opinions on rather I am a bad mom not on if I need help. Retract your claws sweetheart, we are both adults so let's not lose our cool online like a lot of little bitches around here okay, @sandycheeks I was looking for support not critism on the way I word things.

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sandycheeks

sandra usherМама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

I didn't take it to heart. but your on a group of moms. it just stupid to say that. and I'm sure u didn't mean you want to literally throw her away. but like another girl on this group before said the same thing and then another post she was saying she got so aggravated that she threw her baby down on the bed and walked off. sorry but when people say things like that I think you need some kind of help. maybe ask someone to help out when your getting frustrated. or figure out ways to calm yourself. like put her in the crib and go in the other room a few min. something...... and I'm not judging you by no means. I have a 2 and 3 year old. I know it gets tough. but you opened your self to opinions. and when I read it that kinda pissed me off as a mom to hear someone say that.

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mommaalderman

Jessica AldermanМама двоих (младенец)

When I say "throw her away" I don't actually mean I don't want her or I want to give her up. I just mean that I don't handle it well, I need a break to breath. I am trying to get over a phobia of vomiting and whenever she starts excessively crying then it stresses me out because I'm afraid she is gonna throw up. I know the logic behind it, it won't do any good to freak out but sometimes I can't control it. I'm just so tired. I'm not a very open person mostly because there are few people who don't judge and even fewer that you can trust so when it comes to describing my feelings to put it frankly I suck. It drives my husband nuts. So you can't take what I say to heart. Don't get pissed when you don't know the full story behind it. @sandycheeks But thank you guys. @bperrier @thatmomlyfe16

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bianca_rose

BiancaМама двоих (младенец)

There's also this dr that shows you how to hold a baby that calms them down immediately, let me find it

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bianca_rose

BiancaМама двоих (младенец)

Try doing skin to skin when she gets like that

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sandycheeks

sandra usherМама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

yeah I don't care about that honestly. its still wrong to say that. 😒 @thatmomlyfe16 and I wasn't judging. it pissed me off. I simply stated my opinion she asked a question. I didn't call her a bad mom or anything. so miss me with that

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thatmomlyfe16

HannahМама сына-младенца

she was just expressing how she feels and I'm 100% sure other moms feel like this so you have no room to judge because trust me I know how she feels. @sandycheeks

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sandycheeks

sandra usherМама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

umm saying the "I wanna throw her away" kinda pissed me off reading this. cause that's just wrong to even say. but needing a break sometimes or let someone watch her to get a day off is okay.

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bperrier

Billie P.Мама дочки-младенца

No! You are not. I get very frustrated as well. The key is knowing when you need a break and taking it!

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