So I'm wondering if my ex will bother to contact me before my due date. I was thinking that if he didn't I wasn't even going to bother telling him I was in labor. But he should be there! He is the dad whether or not he wants to be or not. And I shouldn't have to go through it without him! I feel that he hasn't stepped up to being this child's father my whole pregnancy this would be the time to try and redeem himself a little for all he has put us through. Plain and simple he should be there and if he doesn't bother trying to come then screw him he doesn't have to be apart of my baby boy's life period.
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I understand you and hopefully if he sees the baby coming and you giving birth to his child maybe that will touch him and maybe he'll decide to change but the way I think is. if I was in your situation I wouldn't want him there after he wasn't really there during your pregnancy. I would just call him after I'm in postpartum room and tell him that I had baby and if he wants he can come by and see him. I wouldn't even call him to say I'm on labor cause that's my special moment. he didn't care much about the baby you were carrying during pregnancy. remember even the day you got home from L&D he decides to just go to the beach! and leave you at home. also when he went to return his daughters he was taking a chance of not being there cause you were 9 months already. that's just the way I think and what I would do. you and your baby are better than that.
That's one thing he can't say I didn't do was try and give him chance after chance! So we'll see what happens. @junesmommy_15
Thank you again! I've cried enough this summer because of that man. Now I just have a lot of anger toward him. And he's not even worth that!! We will both find someone worthy of us one day! Who will love our children like their own. @Skylarsmom7
That's exactly how you should do it I cried every night wondering why.. but everything happens for a reason and just because he is the biological dad don't mean he is the only dad your worth much more and you'll find someone who will show you that. good luck on your journey as a great mom!!!!@missjess
Thank you! I trying to just focus on the baby and I. That's why I'm not even bothering with him I don't need to get myself all upset and stressed out. He hasn't bothered with me either ( which he barely did when I lived there) so whatever it is his loss! He lost me he still has a chance to be this baby's dad. But if not then his loss on that too. His only son. But my child deserves nothing but love and goodness and I won't have his father treat him poorly! @skylarsmom7
I can relate I speak to mines but I always call.. did 7 months alone... no baby shower was to hurt but he will be the one missing out if he doesn't babies don't stay babies forever .. your brave and he is the weak one.. Maybe call after labor you want to focus on having a healthy baby Good luck
Thank you so much! I did try my best, really I did 😕 and I got nothing in return. I deserve far better than that. He's a coward sorry excuse for a man. But I'm back home and pretty much ready for baby boy to make his appearance!! ☺️@mamabearx2
Been following you since you had move in with him!! Just wanted to say that was so wrong the way he treated you!! doesn't matter how long you know someone or how soon u got pregnant! he should of known once u got pregnant it's serious and once u moved in to be close to him!! I use to see your post everyday and it made me so sad I even told my husband loll Sorry but no one should be treated like that after all the stuff u put up with and how hard u always try!! he had it too good * I was hoping evrytime maybe he'll change or I said maybe once his daughters leaves but I guess not 😳. Hope your back with your mom !! and good luck to you & your precious little baby boy . 😘😘💕💕💕💕
I would want to go through it with someone who I feel comfortable with and someone supportive and loving to both you and baby.