how many of you are lucky enough to have your SO at all of your appointments, or at least most of them? my hubby has only been to 2 ultrasounds, no appointments, idk how I feel about it, a little upset I guess....
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Mine came to all my appts except the ones where my dr started checking my cervix
Mine came only 1 ultrasound and 1 appt I really don't mind thought bc I don't want him missing work.. However he's taking a week off when baby arrives
Mine so far has made it to all of my appts I know with his job there will probably come a time where he won't b able to make it and I can't b mad about that but he tries to come to everything and we schedule all of my appts on his day off so he can cause his ex wife didn't allow him to b involved with anything when it came to his girls
Mine came to my ultrasounds & like 2 appointments, I don't mind it he works morning till evening shifts. I just keep him updated with detail on what happened at a certain appointment.
@curvymommy, nah not really because there was nothing much going on n he's working . Plus it's kind of like time to myself
Mine has been to all except one very quick visit that I had when he was working. Next week is our anatomy scan and he has school, but he's planning on telling his professor that he has to be at this appointment. I'm very blessed to have his support.
my husband went to the ultrasound to find out what she was, he came to the first appointment with me, but never came back with me. he went to the car when I went back.
My ex never went and my current boyfriend has never gone. Doesn't bother me
My guy comes to most, but not all cause he can't take off work......so I just try to schedule later appts, but it doesn't always work out
My SO comes to all of them only because I can't drive in this country lol. It wouldn't bother me if he didn't though. The regular appointments aren't interesting and men are inherently disconnected until the birth. We want them to be as emotionally involved as we are but they're not and that's not their faults lol.
My husband only been to one ultra sound & one appointment. It bother me at first but now it doesn't because he works I didn't want him taking off of work lose out on a day's pay. So I understood
Just tell him you want him there to know what's going on with the baby it'll have him more connected, and tell him you want him there for support incase you get any bad news
My boyfriend takes them off to come with me, to all of my appointments so he can know what's going on with the baby and because I told him about my brother who died a month before he was supposed to be born, it was a regular check up and when they checked for a heart beat it wasnt there. So I make sure he's there with me incase we get bad news
He still comes to L&D with me when i feel like something is wrong. every single time too he'll be by my side. Maybe just talk to him and tell him you want him to be more involved. Trust me, he cares. i catch my ex kissing and talking to my tummy while I'm asleep to this day... but won't even touch it while im awake
Yes I do. Sometimes my mom is able to watch her but for the most part she's always with me at my appointments. It's a little hard cause she's a active toddler but I make it work
my husband has been to all the ultrasounds but none of the appointments cause he works 6 days a week but i prefer going with my best friend
Mine only comes to the ultrasounds too. He has a crazy work schedule. And most of them time I'm only with the doctor for five mins and it's the same routine every time. So I really don't mind going by myself.
do you have to take your daughter with you to all of them @amaperalta03 ??
as long as he comes to U.S that's all that matter because check ups I don't care if he don't come because it last for 5 minutes I'm 32 weeks my fiance works an hour away til our baby comes so he can't make it to the U.S today I ain't mad at all.
My boyfriend has only been to 2 this pregnancy and 1 my last. He works long hours so he isn't able to come and I'm okay with that.
with my first he went to just about everyone of my appointments and all my ultrasounds @naomiedgd with this one it kinda makes me feel like he doesn't care. is this your first @mzbritt89 ???
My ex only came to 3 i think. all 3 were ultrasounds. he works during the day so he isn't able to attend but it makes me kinda upset too.
My SO doesnt come to appointments jus ultrasounds.. I dnt mind it tho
Mine came to my first appt, and all of my ultrasounds. My appts are quick and my bf works do there's no need for him to be there.