I need some advise on how to handle a custody battle I don't trust my daughters father to be alone with her... If anyone has any pointers on the dos and donts of a custody battle I would greatly appreciate it.
Would he fail a drug test? I knew my ex would. So I asked my lawyer to have him drug tested. ( with his hair) they made me do it too, but I didn't care. He failed the test, and I had a ton of leverage. Ask for more than is reasonable, because you never get everything you ask for
@cheerbigk, your welcome thank you I hope everything turns out good for you too.
@blanca_boo, ah ok thank you so much! Good luck in your custody battle I hope it works out in your favor!
@cheerbigk, yes there is with legal you can make all the decisions regarding school and things like that. Like if you want to go out of state you don't have to ask the father for permission.
There's a difference between legal and physical custody? Isn't having full custody just called custody? @blanca_boo
@cheerbigk, that will definitely help you a lot in court. I'm going for full legal and physical custody myself.
@blanca_boo, I have a whole list of reasons I don't trust him that I'm planning on using. And supervised visits are what I'm shooting for if not just complete custody
@cheerbigk, you should ask for supervised visitation and if you have proof to why you don't trust him use that.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
What are the reasons? Cause they will only look into if he is going to put the child at risk. If you can prove that he's some druggie or some criminal or something then that will help you