my future MIL is mad at me because I want my mom in the delivery room with me, because I know for a fact I will want my…
my future MIL is mad at me because I want my mom in the delivery room with me, because I know for a fact I will want my momma cause I'm a big baby...also because she will be taking pictures of my fiance cutting baby boys cord, baby boys first breath, the first time I hold him and all that fun stuff that I won't be able to see very well or want in a picture. I don't want my fiance taking pictures because I want him to be in the moment and not have to worry about taking pictures. I get that my future MIL wants to be in there....but I feel she has no right to be in there. my own mom wouldn't even be in there (because I originally only wanted it to be me and my fiance) but I know I'm going to want her in there because like I said I'm a huge baby. but my future MIL is mad because she asked me if she could be in there too and I said no way....like I'm not trying to have an audience... I'm not wrong for not wanting her in there am i??????
Marifer·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
I feel you girl don't let her control stuff cuase they sure love to take advantage 🙄🙄
Kaili·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@shellbell0391, I mean I understand too...but I'm just really not comfortable with her seeing my body like that... I feel like she's my MIL, she doesn't need to see all of my business, even though it probably wouldn't change our relationship, she still doesn't need to see all that. && @julianmommie that's what I'm saying, she's been trying to control my fiance and I's relationship since we started dating...there's no way in hell that she is going to control who's in the room when I'm delivering my baby.
Marifer·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
Your not , your delivering , your baby . I hate when they try to control stuff
Michelle·
I can see why she'd wanna be in there. But i also agree that you're the one that calls the shots
Kaili·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
yes she does, 1 but I guess they're not on speaking terms. but I can guarantee they will be by the time she has kids. I just feel like nobody needs to be in there except me and my fiancé and the person who's taking pictures, which just so happens to be my mom cause I didn't know of anyone else.
Michelle·
I don't think so. Does she have any daughters of her own?