missing924user
missing924user
missing924user

QUESTION LADIES:So this is my bf & I's first baby together. I've never been to an actual doctor's appointment because I've been in the hospital with other issues...so this will be my first prenatal appointment but they'll also do an ultrasound. It'll be the first time that we both get to see our baby. Am I wrong for not wanting his family to come? (they've asked)...I just feel like it's too much...& I just want this to be a moment for me & my bf...thoughts?

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autumnl23

I agree Im letting my family come too the gender ultrasound and thats the only one the rest have been between me and my husband

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korahleah_11
Korahleah Sanchez·Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

your baby. do what you want!

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mskandice
Kandice Stedman·Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

You do what you feel is best. You can record it for them on your phone and show them after.

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nowmrspost
AMP·В ожидании первенца

I also had my fiancé record her heartbeat (at a regular appt w their doppler)

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nowmrspost
AMP·В ожидании первенца

ya that's a lil much. if you're comfortable, invite someone/them to midway sono or 3d sono if you're getting one

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missing924user

@babyelkins2016, @desiraeriley @misholi87 @mamaash thank y'all. I just didn't want to sound selfish and he makes me feel bad because they're asking...I'll definitely consider recording it. They didn't even let me see at the hospital

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misholi87
Shawnee·В ожидании первенца

the less stress the better in the beginning. if you want them to go later on you can. we record all of the ultrasounds so we can share with family. maybe try doing that

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babyelkins2016
Shyan Davis·В ожидании первенца

we told both sides of our family that all sonogram appointment were just going to be me and my boyfriend and they can love on our daughter as much as they want when she's born. And same for delivery

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del_1512192831_mamaash

not wrong at all! it's a good moment for you two to share alone if that's what you want. ☺️

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dez3185
Desirae·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

If you want it to be just you and him then it should be as you wish.

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