I've gotten all the baby stuff with the money i saved when I was working AND bought my daughter all her school shit but yet he bitches about him being broke. motherfuck. I asked you too figure out how too stock up on diapers, I didn't go out and get a 700 dollar car payment knowing I had a kid and another one on the way, that was him. Smh. not too mention the stress of not having a Dr anymore, he knows I'm stressing with my insurance issues, I really don't need too hear about his shit.
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I 've always been 1 to pre plan it all..for everything and all my sons and husband. might be the Capricorn in me..My oldest is in college I'm on top of him , My other son will be an 8th grader and my husband. ..I'm meant to stay the princess but,always am in control of what needs to get done.This pregnancy was def planned and I have 40 outfits,10bottles,swing,bath tub stuff..pampers size newborn3packs and 2 size 1. bouncer,play mats,,I believe I'm being ready, I even have maxi pads 2 pack for after birth.Your husband needs to help you organize and be prepared for the children u have here and coming and not get a crazy high car payment to add to bills :/
thank you @nygirl3rdbabymiami, he acts like I put so much on him. and refers to it as "we got this and that." no, you bought a few onsies, and your aunt gave you a free crib. everything else is me. then he gets pissed cuz I spent 20 dollars on a make shift dresser for babies clothes and he's like we could have put them all in a fucking bin. Yeah because when my son has to be changed from his onsie because some sort of accident happened, I want too waste my time going through a bin of clothes as he's screaming, or how he tells me we don't need medicines right now, and I respond with yeah cuz have u ever hauled a sick baby too the store too get something you should of already had on hand? SMH. I don't even move in til next week and I'm already done.
Cloth diapers save you so much money, YouTube pocket diapers.
take a breath,you sound like a great mom and prepared for your kids :) some men just don't get it #1first priority should always be what the kids need first
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
my thoughts exactly!!! @nygirl3rdbabymiami