@jetrum, it's good your mum lives close! I found it hard to ask for help initially but I've learnt to stay sane you need plenty of help! Aslong as you've got a bit of help when needed you'll be fine! Just gotta remember you'll had good days & bad days! But the next day is always around the corner! Thank you! Harry's got a bit of that too! With both things some days he's been screaming in pain! Your right it's horrendous! Not knowing how you can help! I was in tears earlier because there was nothing I could do! But we all do our best we can for our little Ones! Millen? What a lovely name!!xx

@daniluvsdis, hope you're little one is better soon. Millen has colic, it's horrible seeing them in distress isn't it :( xxx

@mrsnelly2013, @daniluvsdis @rachaellw it's gonna be hard but we just got to get on with it I suppose! I'm annoyed I can't drive for another 4 weeks because of section! luckily my mom lives a few doors away and doesn't work so she'll be able to pop over! I'm just hoping I get into a good routine although like you say I'll probably be in tears the first few days!! lol xxx

@jetrum, I'm not gonna be any help here! But my OH went back last Monday! And last week was awful! However, Harry has been poorly with constipation so has been more clingy and crying loads! My advice would be try to get into a routine but also see if you've got someone to pop up and help for a couple of hours on one or two of the days so your not feeling like you've been dropped in the deep end right away!? Sorry if I've made you worry more!?xxx

My oh only had 1 week off as we couldn't afford 2. It was awful at the time and cryed for hours. We had to spend two nights in hospital to so I felt like we had no time together. I still miss him when he's at work and I get up set and my lo is nearly 6 months 😕

I'm so scared of my husband going back to work in 2 weeks. I'm worrying I won't cope either 🙈😔

thanks @leigh-amyxo @peachesx I'm hoping I'll get into some sort of routine. sometimes you're better on your own aren't you....I'm hoping that's the case!! xxx

my oh had his 2 weeks off when my little one was born and I was dreading it but it was okay xx