Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
😵 How do you tell the father of your child that you don't see him as your husband in the future. I love him but I'm not in love with him. He has been asking to get married but I don't know. your supposed to want to be around that person every chance you get. but if he calls me I'm instantly annoyed. if he touches me I get annoyed if he wants a kiss I get annoyed. He is a great guy he loves his baby and he works so hard to provide for us but I'm just meh. I feel guilty and so ungrateful. I'm 19 and he's 22 we've been. together for 2 and a half years and I've known him since elementary school. should I stick with it and make it work or should I let it go. thoughts please
zoe·
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I feel your pain hun. feel like they don't understand at all xx
Rachael·
Yep I got that apart from my oh would disappear and not tell me anything. Then on my due date went to a football match and got home at 2am having a go at me drunk while I was in slow labour! Now he is totally different and has never ducked me about. He knows now I'd say bye bye. I'm not doing that shit again so up to him
Barbara Sheasby·
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@zozo87, @rachaellw seems lots of women have OH issues when they're pregnant 🙄🙈 Guys just don't seem to understand what's going on. We make sacrifices as soon as we become pregnant but it's not as immediate for them so they just carry on as normal. I wouldn't change my situation but it was a two person decision so how did he not realise how things would change?
Rachael·
Totally agree let him get it out if system (easier said then done) hopefully when baby's here he will man up and sort him self out
zoe·
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@cupcake107, I fell pregnant after 2 months of being with my OH so was hard getting to no someone at the same time. x
Barbara Sheasby·
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Thanks @rachaellw, that's what I'm hoping... Hopefully he'll go out now and then he'll be happy to stay in once baby is here. I'm just worried if I go into labour and he's not here or too hungover/drunk to take me x
Barbara Sheasby·
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@zozo87, Wow that sounds hard going. Not only getting to know someone and all their flaws/faults but also being pregnant and hormonal too. A true relationship test!! X
zoe·
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@cupcake107, struggling so hard. he hasn't even let me meet his parents yet. glad other partners are being douches too. but I wish they would all realise what they have at home xx
Barbara Sheasby·
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@zozo87 yup, lots of arses around. Men eh? X
zoe·
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@cupcake107, is yours home yet? xx
Barbara Sheasby·
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@zozo87, nope, still not back as he's stayed at his mates because of driving there. My cold shoulder is ready for today 😉 x
zoe·
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ohh poop hun :( I always say mine that if he don't come home then that'd be it. he only come home last night as he had work this morn. I was hoping he'd sleep through his alarm but nope :( still won't tell me wats going on. so I'm supposed to wait all day for an answer with Wether or not her wants to be with me xx
Barbara Sheasby·
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@zozo87, I hope things go the way they are supposed to for you. Everything happens for a reason. If it's meant to be then you'll be together x
zoe·
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@cupcake107, it's not the 1st time he's done this. but the fact he expects me to put up with the stress is terrible. babies is going nuts today xx