So had a shitty day at work (thank god I've only got one week left!!) come home and try to talk to OH about it and he doesn't pay much attention cause his phone keeps going off. Turns out his mates from work are getting on at him to go out. Fast forward 4 hours and they're still badgering him to go out so I just told him to go. I'm so angry with them and him. I know it's selfish but do they not realise I'm 36 weeks pregnant so could technically pop at an point?!? And he annoys me because he goes out all the time and gets drunk, goes clubbing etc. I'm just upset cause as soon as I found out I was pregnant my life changed and his hasn't one bit!! Sorry, rant over. It just annoys me that being pregnant changes a woman's life forever but the man can carry on regardless
ohh poop hun :( I always say mine that if he don't come home then that'd be it. he only come home last night as he had work this morn. I was hoping he'd sleep through his alarm but nope :( still won't tell me wats going on. so I'm supposed to wait all day for an answer with Wether or not her wants to be with me xx
@cupcake107, struggling so hard. he hasn't even let me meet his parents yet. glad other partners are being douches too. but I wish they would all realise what they have at home xx
@zozo87, Wow that sounds hard going. Not only getting to know someone and all their flaws/faults but also being pregnant and hormonal too. A true relationship test!! X
Thanks @rachaellw, that's what I'm hoping... Hopefully he'll go out now and then he'll be happy to stay in once baby is here. I'm just worried if I go into labour and he's not here or too hungover/drunk to take me x
@zozo87, @rachaellw seems lots of women have OH issues when they're pregnant 🙄🙈 Guys just don't seem to understand what's going on. We make sacrifices as soon as we become pregnant but it's not as immediate for them so they just carry on as normal. I wouldn't change my situation but it was a two person decision so how did he not realise how things would change?
Yep I got that apart from my oh would disappear and not tell me anything. Then on my due date went to a football match and got home at 2am having a go at me drunk while I was in slow labour! Now he is totally different and has never ducked me about. He knows now I'd say bye bye. I'm not doing that shit again so up to him