Sorry ladies I'm forever ranting about 1 thing or another.
But Christmas is a while off yet. But just found out my other half will be working as they'll be asking for volunteers and I think he's going to. Meaning he will have to spend Christmas down the flat without me and the baby and I'll be staying up my mothers. That annoys me as he's acting like it's not a big deal and it will be Gabriels first Christmas... It's bothering me how when baby is here I'll be staying up my mothers because the flat is too small and I can't get a pram up or down the stairs. Which annoys me again as I'll be on my own looking after the baby when he'll be too tired.. And he's not even bothered about finding a place together. I'm so worried it's gonna drive a wedge between us ...
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Sometimes I think because we carry babies from the beginning we have an instant bond with them whereas guys don't so they don't see the significance of things in the future. I know it's probably not the best but maybe once baby is here he will realise and it'll give him the kick up the arse to want to sort out your living arrangements x
Thanks for that hun. I think you may be right there! We feel the babies move and kick and they don't experience that. I really hope so beyond fed up of bending to fit his needs and being called a bag when I bring certain things up with him xx