It really pisses me off that my husband doesn't say or do anything when my stepson disrespect me idk if it's because Im not his real mother but that will be a reason why I'll leave
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I've tried talking to him and he does say yeah your right I need to stop doing that then goes right back to doing it when he's mad. It's not fair to me when I live everyone and I took on the responsibility to raise his son because his mother chose not too he has to give me that kind of respect or it's not gunna work out
@jenny955 yeah I definitely I understand ur patients are going to get very thin.. especially since u already talked to him about it as nice as possible..
He's not even 3. His dad is probably is more relaxed because he feels guilty. His aggression towards you isn't okay but it is normal. Your the new parent and the child has to go back and forth. This will take some time for him to get used to. I would absolutely talk to his parents about putting him in speech. That will probably help with his behavior and communicating his feelings.
He is in speech, and his mother is not allowed to see him so there's no going back an forth. He hasn't seen his mom in about a year
@jenny955 has he been evaluated for other disorders. Just be patient with him. Even though he hasn't seen his mother in a year it could still be affecting him. I would definitely be talking to your boyfriend about getting him more help and being consistent with his discipline
@massgirl oh iknow it's prob still tramatizing he's been in an out of foster care his whole life about 5 months ago we got full custody of him the mother has to get her life together before she can even see him. But I still wanna be respected. Also he's never seen his parents together even as a baby so he's been through a lot
When I first got with my SO his daughter was a brat. She would kick me and it wasn't just me everyone and nobody was correcting it. I just kept getting after him about correcting her and finally he did something about it. Then when id keep her I wasn't having that shit. Now she's 17, listens and a pretty good kid.
It was more then kicking. She would talk back among other things.
@nena901 I should take a video and show his what goes on when he's gone
@jenny955 yes you should. Some times a person has to see it
A disrespectful boy that’s never corrected will grow up to be a disrespectful man that abuses and calls his wife nasty names. Better get that nipped in the bud now.
I don't blame you he should correct him.. If I was you I would leave too but I know you love both of them but I mean your husband has got to be on your side not the child's all the time
He's always on his child's side its like a slap in the face I'm trying to do my job as a parent and a mother figure to him if he's acting the way he is there's gunna be disapline..
If I say clean up the toys and he disrespects me all he'll say is clean up the toys he doesn't even correct him..
It goes for alot of things it's like he sticks up for him when it comes to disapline and says I'm crazy... No I'm not don't you want him to learn and listen if not then I'll walk away and good luck I'm here because I love him but if I'm going to get treated this way I don't wanna stay
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My mother smacked me in my face twice yesterday & threw things at me ,oh & also swung me to the grown with my face to the floor . & im suppose to except her apology & move on ?
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
2 or not that’s when u start getting it under control ur husband definitely needs to start making sure he respects u as his wife and mother figure ur only trying to do what’s best he doesn’t want him to be out of control and when it’s too late I hope he starts taking up for u soon, it may be rough the new change for him but he still needs to respect u!