Not been on here in a while had a lot of stuff going on but I wanted to update with the fact that my neighbours (a middle aged couple who live above me, no kids and I've received abuse from them before) reported me to SS. I have never known anything more ridiculous in my life. These are the points that they reported and I will explain the reasoning behind them:
-I have, and I quote here, '3 takeaways delivered a day' (I have up to 2 a week some weeks because I can afford it and I am either too tired or too busy after caring for my daughter single handedly 24/7. It is usually only something small like a burger and chips. I said they can come cook for me if they're that concerned. This point infuriates me the most because I also have a tesco shop delivered once a week but they miss that apparently🙄
-My DDs dad and her GPs don't enter my property when coming to collect her/drop her off after contact (Now this one is a strange one too, not sure how that means I'm neglecting my daughter. They do not know the dynamics between me and the relatives and I don't have to have anyone in my home if I don't want to. They are coming to collect/drop off their DD/GD not have some tea and a chat)
-My black bin overflows by 1 or 2 bags sometimes (This is because there is a large set of steps to get up to the pavement in front of my flat and I struggle to get a full bin up there as my back is still kinda strained from giving birth and tbh I'm not that strong😂 If there is no one available to put it out for me then it doesn't go out so I get behind on rubbish a bit every now and then. I also have bad social anxiety so asking neighbours to take it out for me is a no no but it must be obvious to them but instead of offering to help me they report me to SS...)