Would you take your child's father for child support if he hasn't bought anything for the baby yet and he begged for you…

Girl plz don't let some of these bitter baby mama's dictate what you do. Men are different, they aren't as attached as we are so they'll usually wait until the baby is born and then start doing stuff. Give him some time and see if he follows through.

@skylarsmom7, never thought I'd be in my situation especially since he wanted this baby just as bad as I did , but shit happens and as mommies we gotta make it happen for our little one with or without the help from anyone !

Me personally I would give him time after she's born like you said

Understandable

Yes but I was going to put him on right away as soon as I'm able to move around.. I have spoken to him and txt him things he promise but don't buy it and then yells at me and tells me baby not even here yet but I spent 4 grand on preparation for her while he spent zero.. I don't want money in hand I want him to at least help pay for diapers and day care essential things because I'm still paying for school but I will just wait a month and after I will go. I was up in the air because I don't want him to think I'm bitter or want to be wit him I just want my daughter to have a fare chance @bianca_rose @msprettyinpink thanks

I don't think you can take him until the baby is born anyway

I would wait to put him on paprs n see if he will help after baby born. Me n my daughter father was in a relationship n he ain't help with stuff nor went to any apps til his mother found out I was pregnant at 7 -7 1/2 months pregnant. That's when his mom n gma made him go to apps n then put stuff on layaway. After she was born he was there n still here for her. I give him that. Even tho is was a cheater n abusive n we broke up when she was almost 1

Put him on papers girl

Yea sometimes it takes the baby being born for them to get it other times they never do. Good luck to you I hope he changes soon

yeah I think I will wait a month if nothing happens I'm going to sign up I'm in school and still paying partial of school tution... never thought I could be in this situation @desi720 @landuhzluv @lovingmydaughter @ilovemykids24 @michelle2220 @mommy2dreux thank u

I'm in the same boat and I'm waiting it out to see how he does when she gets here if things don't change I'll be signing up with no hesitation

yeah I have bought everything I just don't believe a grown man should do that to his kid.. and plus I'm a college student

I would wait to see if there's any hope for him. If there is still nothing I would take him eventually

don't let your pride get in the way. I'm so tired of women thinking oh I don't need his money blah blah blah it's not about needing it it's about not letting the asshole think he can get away with his shit. I'm filling as soon as baby girl gets here.

and it's not about being dependent and don't let anyone think you're being dependent. baby is the responsibly of both, you didn't lay down by yourself. he didn't independently get that release. hell.

put him on papers. he's already shown his hand

I'm more of an independent woman so, I wouldn't even bother with it.

Put him on papers.. I wouldn't wait. You don't have time for that. You need your baby taken care of from day one...