It's not all my friends but it's one of my group of friends. They don't believe in a lot of things I do. Like they all had kids in high school and were mad I didn't get pregnant with them. And on and on. And I know I need t get ride of them hahah @babygirl10-11

girl u need new friends just cause you dont see eye 2 eye things..... my friend doesn't believe in watching porn and we've been best friends 16/17 yrs

@alexislopez, I can only imagine... I feel so ugly sometimes and I would feel even worse if my husband did that but I'm glad he doesn't!!!so glad u found someone who doesn't

@mommyofcohenjayceandmatthew, my man doesn't want to watch it. Trust me he tells me when he likes and wants and give it to him. I'm willing to try new stuff with him. What I was trying to say was my friends think it's weird I don't watch it or let me husband watch it and don't want to be my friend because we believe in different things

@babygirl10-11, see I think that would be different. If we both watched it I would be okay with it. But I don't watch it nor does he.

I agree! I caught my hubby watching it once and was very very mad about it! Makes you feel sooo insecure and I hate it. Porn ruins marriages!!

to each their own i guess..

Yes I would feel insecure why would he have a reason to look at other girls when am like right there

@babygirl10-11, the standards you and your man live by are none of my business, but yes, in my marriage we consider it cheating. My husband developed a porn addiction and knows first hand how destructive it can be to himself as well as me. I am enough for my husband and he is enough for me.

My ex was addicted to porn to the point where he wouldn't even have sex with me. Can you imagine how low it made my self esteem. My hubby now doesn't and I'm so thankful. There's no reason for it so I get you

YES! IT IS WRONG. its fake, its for one very addictive an ruins women's self esteem. makes me fee like I'm worthless an that I'm not good enough, sadly we live in such a corrupt world that makes it OK, sorry but if my husband wants porn he can have it, I'll gladly leave my marriage so he can fantasize over some whore instead make love with his wife. its disrespectful an for those who think its okay, is because they either are addicted or don't have good self esteem.

well i guess me n my hubby are cheaters @elenalee because we watch porn

I am right there with you! I don't believe it is healthy for a marriage and my husband agrees. I don't see why it is so weird to people to want the desires of your partner to be towards yourself? I feel that porn is a form of unfaithfulness.

No your not wrong but doing it together may help join in see why he's watching it. Find out what he likes and talk it out he may just stop honestly. Hope everything works out for y'all love

I feel the same way, it upsets me when my man watches porn. My current man says he doesn't watch porn and I am inclined to believe him. My ex watched porn all the time and I caught him and he was a dick, he cheated on me turns out...I don't think it's right either, if you are with someone you should not be desiring another. Call me old fashioned or controlling as you said but I personally don't believe in it...to each their own though lol

no alot of women dont like their so watching porn...... i dont care if my hubby watches it sometimes we even watch it together