What's everyone's views on your other half watching porn?? I honestly don't like it. I think it's…

Its normal every man watches porn and most women do too i wouldnt worry about it xo

I have no issue with I rather he watch some hot bird that he's never gonna meet or have a chance with than some slapped down the pub who's dog rough, men are sexual species they need to find some relief one way or another I didn't want sex during pregnancy and I still don't know so if that's what keeps him happy I've no issue with it but my best friend is like you she goes ape shit if she found out her partner was doing she finds its disrespectful to her I don't think there's a wrong or right answer to it it all depends how you feel about it xx

@cs90, my other half watches it. He doesnt know that i know he does but i find it vile!! makes ne feel like shit, i know exactly how you feel hun, its so heartbreaking when im the one thats up doing our little girls nursery and hes lay in bed or the bath watching porn. xxx

@lottiekingstone, oh thank god someone is like me. He doesn't know I've been looking. And I know when he does coz sometimes he clears his history. I feel like he doesn't love me for who I am while I'm pregnant. All I want to do is cry about it or tell someone but I can't x

I think it's normal I don't really mind my other half watching porn...However the fact your saying he isn't paying as much attention to you etc that would annoy me. :/ xx

@cs90, I was 100% in the sam situation a few weeks back. I use to sit and cry and get so pissed off with him. I had no one to talk to about it. He still doesnt know that I know he watches it. I think I have just sort of delt with it and accepted it. If he carries on when our little girl is here I will be openinf my mouth & leaving him for making me feel so shit! xx

Hmm I agree with @holliesinead .. There's no right or wrong answer it all just depends on how you feel. Before I got pregnant me and my partner watched it together... I've became a bit prudish since I got pregnant probably due to my plummeting sex drive, but I wouldn't mind my OH still watching it. But if you're particularly bothered you should try talking to him about it. If you don't want him to know that you've been looking at his phone you could bring it up in general convo, maybe say one of your friends has the same issue " such and such's boyfriend watches so much porn and it really upsets her, what do you think about that? " etc etc xx

I've been with my husband 10 years and when I first found our it did upset me and make me feel like I wads not attractive enough and I had a word with him on how I felt but it's 50/50 men have needs so if you are not up for it at the moment then you are gonna have to accept that he needs relive and I think like @holliesinead said I would rather he diy then with someone else however if the case is you are still very much in the mood for sex and he is not showing you any attention you need a serious word with him about how it's making you feel and that it's not acceptable to behave like that especially to the women expecting your child xxx

I have the same problem girls .. And when I want to have sex with him he just brushes me away and don't make no effort at all and bring up the excuse I'm scared I'm gonna hurt the baby or bring on the labour .. And it's been at least a month since we even tried .. I know he watches it more then once a day .. We sleep in separate rooms and he has his own laptop and when the sound is off that's when I know .. It just seems like his not attracted to me anymore...

I think I need to talk to him about it. Our daughter is going for a sleep over tomorrow night so we can maybe sit down and chat about it. I can talk to him about anything really as I've been through so much he's been by my side through everything. Just need to get it off my chest I think. I've been so quiet all day that I've just wanted to cry. Think my hormones are going crazy. Thankyou ladies. Just wanted to see what everyone else's opinions was xxx

I had this issue with my other half just after we found out I was pregnant with our little boy. The only difference is I found explicit groups on his Facebook and he would turn his phone away from me if he was scrolling through. I made his Facebook account as he's useless with tech. So I logged in and seen all the groups he had been added too. I was so upset. All these girls were slim with big assists and disgusting explicit videos! I got so upset and waited until he came home and confronted him about it and told him how it made me feel and asked why he was so secretive about it . I removed him from all those groups and he hasn't done it since. I think what bothers me now though is now that I'm huge, put on a tonne of weight and covered in stretch he will stare at other women when we are out especially girls in crop tops, tight dresses with shorts up their arses and deny it. He knows how I feel about my body and try's to comfort me but I know he finds me disgusting I'd rather him do it behind my back and not to my face and call me paranoid xx

o dear! I wrote the same concern when I was pregnant as I caught my hub so many times watching porn literally and he was brushing me off when I had the desire, (sex drive was up in the sky in preg) making the same excuses as he gonna hurt the baby la lala .. I had so many arguments and fall outs coz of these issues 😒 In fact I confronted him way b4 pregnancy as well... watching porn is not an issue however, watching eveey now and den or on daily basis is an addiction which eventually affect ur real sex life as coz real thing takes a lot effort whereas watching porn can help in finsihing business just like that 😞. I have read about it and talked to him and showed him what hes upto .. but he still does that and delete his phone history. Now, I am not bothered I already get tired so much with my lo that in the end no desire left watsoever ..! X @cs90

tell him how u feel. if he love and respects u hed stop. i dont agree and dont think its normal if u got a girl at home whats the need in watchin others in my opinion.

I don't have a problem with it to be fair... Although, if our sex life wasn't very good and he wasn't interested in me then I definitely would have an issue with it... Xx

I'm the same I can't stand it, my partner says he doesn't watch it anymore but I'm not stupid he's not gonna stop just cause I say so... 😠 xx