@mommagotbump16, oh yeah !

Ahh so glad to hear that! I'll bet you feel soooo much better now 😜

@missjess, @mommagotbump16 well I had a talk with him and he watched him all night fed and changed him all night ! Let me sleep it was amazing !!!! He did do such a great job too he made sure baby didn't make a peep and was on top of things I was so happy ... 😀

My husband doesn't..and I'm ok with it he's gone for about 12-13 hours of the day. So night time is the only time he can relax from being out in the sun all day.

Oh hon...that's terrible! Sleep deprivation is no joke, and a crying baby makes it worse. Is there anyone else that can come watch baby while you take a nap?

If I need help you better bet your ass I'll be waking him up to help me! Better yet I'll let him cry right in his ear for that extra early wake up 😋 he does get up at like 530 for work, but he's going to have to understand that I'm going to need his help sometimes. It's going to be just me and baby majority of the time, but he will still have his daddy duties when he's home!

@aboutellesbabe, @mommagotbump16 @adrien5.29 ya'll are lucky let me vent for a second and I may sound like a princess but I'm not lol I think I'm only upset because , Thursday night which is understandable cuz he works at 5:00 am so we went to bed kinda late it was almost 11 and baby woke up at 12 am to eat so I fed and changed him but he didn't go back to bed til' 4 am then woke up at 6 and stayed up was hard to get him to nap so all day tired ... So my husband said , he would get up with him all night Friday night which I was so happy !!!! Also I gave my man two blow jobs before bed one earlier that night and then one before I went to sleep when j told him I didn't really want to but he wouldn't take no and I just wanted to sleep . So we ended up falling asleep at 12:00 then baby woke up at 2;00 for feeding and changing ,, so I told him I would help and make the bottle and when I came back I said can u change him and he said can u change him ?? I'm like baby u said u would do all these things but I made the bottle ... Anyways so I changed baby ... And , then I asked him to feed him .. I'm standing there with bottle in hand and he goes no .. Because , I mad a deal about changing baby ... I said , seriously ?? And he didn't say a damn thing .. Then he flips out because I'm crying while feeding baby and he leaves the room to go sleep in guest room and leaves me with baby and baby wouldn't go to sleep til 5 am this morning .... I try to sleep an 10 mins later baby wakes up crying so I try to get him to sleep and then i notice now it's 8:00 am and husband still sleeping and snoring ! I'm like wtf so I'm so tired ... And I said to him are u ever going to let me sleep and he says nothing so he continues to sleep in til 10:30 ..... So yeah I dunno I guess I'm just upset cuz I'm tired

my husband does every diaper change, washes my pump every time after I use it, rubs my back while I breast feed, will hold him if he's fussy so I can go back to sleep

Mine does now, but at the first 8 months hardly helped but has helped alot in other ways

I ebf also so I get up with him but I get into bed to bf and my boyfriend gets up and rubs my back the whole time haha he's so sweet and then he changes the diaper and we all go back to sleep!

Since I'm EBF, my husband would get up and get the baby changed before I fed him, both times.