My husband's idea of good "communication" lol:

Husband: So we're gonna still see y'all for lunch right?

Me: Uhhhh...

Husband: Remember, we talked about it yesterday? Pam's in town?

Me: Uh, no, I remember you told me Pam was in town, and that I should bring the boys by the unit, but we didn't talk about lunch. I mean, we can...

Husband: Well, that's why I was calling, to give you a heads up.

Me: Uh sure, I can try to wrangle the boys up there.

Husband: Ok cool, because I was gonna go ahead and do my re-enlistment after lunch.

Me: Wait, what? When were you gonna tell me this?

Husband: Uhh, now?

😲😵 He's such a goober. Guess I have to put on pants now... Damn it. 😂