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Michelle

I can't stand the fact that I've been crying non stop since the doctors told me my son is in the 5th percentile &…

I can't stand the fact that I've been crying non stop since the doctors told me my son is in the 5th percentile & weighing less than 4 lbs and I'm 37w3d, everyone making it seem like it's my fault" you need to eat more" " if you would've been eating in the beginning then maybe he would've gained weight" from my in laws , "friends" like I'm already at my breaking point stop making me feel worse about my son...has anyone had anything familiar happen to the how much did you baby come out at birth. Please I just need to feel okay about the situation

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jlf240

Jenny

В ожидании первенца

It's ok! It doesn't always matter how much you eat or anything like that. You can still have a healthy baby without them being 6-7lbs or heavier.

hlanc4

Heather

Мама четверых детей

My babies were 35 weeks one was 4.14 no issue besides jaundice which is nothing to do with food. Don't stress I think you'll both be fine!

myramercado

myra

girl don't feel like that . when I had my first born my daughter I was literally 41 weeks she was only 5 pounds tiny tiny but healthy ad a rock . stay positive . you did your best and will continue to do the best for your baby .

sashacooper

Sasha Cooper

Мама двоих (5 лет, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@michelle0822, my first child was born at 5lbs and 4oz and she was over due by 2 days it's not your fault sometimes we just give birth to smaller babies. My daughter is still way under the growth and weight for her age. You have nothing to feel bad for at all so don't let anyone bother you.

sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

girl, don't let anyone bring you down, some babies are just little peanuts, my daughter is 10 months old and weighs maybe 16 pounds

del_1515821889_rebecca3009

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don't feel bad at all you didn't do anything my oldest daughter was born weighing 4.15 at 38 weeks and she was perfectly healthy just small and the doctor made me feel terrible but I as happy to have a healthy baby with 10 fingers and 10 toes. I came to relies after I had the rest of my children I carry small baby's because they were all in the 5 lb range

michelle0822

Michelle

@rebeccca3009 did you get to take your oldest daughter home when you left the hospital or did she have to stay afterwards

del_1515821889_rebecca3009

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@michelle0822, she came home with me.

What would you do? - baby shower

What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.