I'm a few days away from being 36 weeks and my mom is telling me and my family to prepare ourselves bc (she's a nurse and has been for a long time) and she says my dad doesn't have long, she and one of my sister's (who was also a nurse) says they can see death on him, my mom explained to me how bad things are and how much has changed, my dad is 71, he can't put his shoes on anymore , take a bath or take more than a few steps before he can no longer breathe...he sleeps all day almost everyday and that is Sooo not my dad. he just got out the hospital a week and a half ago from being rushed there at 4 in the morning! How am I suppose to prepare to bring a life Into this world while also prepare to lose one? 😭😭😭 my baby shower is next Saturday and I'll find out later today If my dad is allowed to travel and can come or not. I'm not prepared to lose him....and I want him to meet his grandson😞😞😞 I'm trying to keep it together for the sake of my son and not to overstress myself into premature labor but this is hard....and alot on my heart and mind.