Stay at home mom's have it the hardest cause not only do we devote our entirety to our kids we sacrifice our own needs for them! Those who don't see the hardship we endure everyday can go shove one!! It's not easy dealing with little personalities and sometimes you want a break ... but guess what there's no such thing as a break ! For anyone to say that what you do is easy and discredits your worth to your child is plain ridiculous.... especially when they themselves aren't doing what you do everyday! Tell them they wouldn't last a day an hour caring for a kid...kids are unpredictable and they learn through example from us. Their rambunctious and loud..they are risky and you gotta keep an eye in them 24-7 if you take your eye off them they'll be in some naughty things. My point ladies we have maternal instincts for a reason it's not rocket science that we just developed it..we were born with it !! Don't let no one who don't take care for your kids physically discredit you.... your a freaking Saint !!!