Okay this has less to do w/ baby & more to do w/ me just wanting to vent. But my boyfriend and I have been together for several months now. The entire time he has been legally separated, but still technically married. This is because his lovely wife has done any and everything to drag out the divorce as long as possible. She has every single piece of furniture or money they acquired while together, he is signing over the car to her so she isn't vehicleless. He basically gave her everything and said I just want to finally get divorced and move on with our lives. This impacts me because obviously we don't want this to be how our relationship functions, and because we are trying to have a baby amongst infertility issues. Today we find out that she tried to take out a loan using his name and ssn, so now we get to deal with claiming fraud on top of trying to get this divorce finalized and over. I'm upset because I won't be intentionally trying to bring a baby into this messy situation, and I'm tired of it. It's already hard enough to have a baby thanks to the fact that he had testicular cancer, and now we can't even plan for one, despite being ready for almost a year, because she has decided that she hates me. High school really never ends. I'm just pouty today and ready to try for my second little one. Adults are allowed to foot stomp right? If so I am about to foot stomp tantrum so hard.