Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
First real case of Discrimination today. 😯 General Contractor kept asking where my SO when I was pulling off the job. Even said ‘How come he doesn’t come here and talk to me like a man’. Wow. I ended up calling the police because felt threatened in how defensive he was talking. Sheesh. I talked to a friend in the industry and told him everything that happen and he cut me off yelling ‘THATS DISCRIMINATION!’ Do I let it go? Or take him to court?
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама четверых детей
Thank you, much appreciated mama!
liz·
Мама четверых детей
@hellosweetie, thank you so much for the encouragement! I hope you feel better too!💕💕
Alexandra McMillan·
Мама четверых детей
It's okay mama, it can be very hard to be a mom sometimes ESPECIALLY since you got three kids! You are doing great, and please remember this is just a phase and will pass. In the meantime, try reaching out to family and friends if you can (I never could, we live out of State) and ask if they can either help for a bit so you can have some rest or perhaps just watch the older kids for a little but so you can have some quiet time with the new one by yourself. My hubby used to work graveyards too so I know how tiring and lonesome it can be, you feel like you don't have any help like it is all on you...totally okay to feel that way! If you feel as if you are in a funk don't rule out talking to your doctor about the possibility of PPD, the sooner you catch it the better. I wish I would have tried and talked about it because now I am 11 months pp and still in a funk, and I feel like it's too late to say it is PPD...in the end, don't doubt yourself. You are doing an amazing job and keep up the good work!!!
liz·
Мама четверых детей
Thank you. ❤️. I would but I can't. My husband works nights and sleeps durring the day. I tried to for just five minuites to take a quick shower. I had he baby in his little sleep n play in bathroom with me and he was crying, woke my hubby up. He got mad that I was letting him cry.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
I think you might just need a break its ok if you let him cry a little sometimes you need a second for yourself