Had an awkward doctors appointment today. I went to my doctor to get back on my Prozac, sadly I have to stop breastfeeding altogether. At my appointment she asked how I wasn't going to get pregnant again, I told her I was on birth control but I wasn't having sex. Keep in mind I'm 16, so I shouldn't be having sex at all. She proceeded to tell me that I should have sex with my boyfriend to keep him happy or to do other things for him. I'm just like "Well I don't want to. Later I will but now I don't." This lady just kept at it about having sex with my boyfriend, for 15 minutes. I thought that was just crazy. Lol
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@wolverinemommy, what are you disagreeing with? I didn't even say that her doctor should pressure or bother her nor does it matter if you agree with ME lol.. I don't give a damn if you agree with me. Make your point without tagging me in it.
I don't have sex because it hurts my vagina. I'm not trying to be a virgin. My body isn't ready yet. @jesjeslovesyou
I disagree with @jesjeslovesyou. No person should pressure or bother you about having sex, especially a health professional that specializes in women's health. It doesn't matter what age you are. I think it's ridiculous she, as a doctor who you trust, would say something like that, ESPECIALLY because she pointed out that it would "make your BF happy." Highly unprofessional.
Well you've already had sex, so it doesn't really matter if you should or shouldn't be having it lol. And it's so weird that your doctor told you that you should do it to keep your boyfriend happy. Nope. Sex isn't something you should be forced to do to keep someone happy. Do it when you want to!
If you don't want to have sex, don't have sex. Do it to make your boyfriend "happy?" no way! He's not your husband and you are in no way ever obligated to have sex with anyone. find a doctor with a sense of reality and woman's rights...especially given your young age.
Well you've already done it and made a baby now, lol. I'm with her on this one. Not having sex won't make you a virgin at this point lol.
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@mommyrichardson, well in that case don't have sex. If you're not ready then you're not ready. I was referring to you saying that you were 16 and really shouldn't be having sex. Your age or what you should be doing is irrelevant now. You already made a baby, lol.