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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
I don't know what to do with my 4 year old anymore he has ADD and Bipolar disorder he constantly runs to the neighbors without asking just because he sees their son out. Then he punches kicks and screams all the way home. I can hardly lift him anymore being the fact that he's 56lbs and 48 inches tall and has super strength when he's mad. Being 8 and 1/2 months pregnant, not having A/C, my husband having cancer, working full time still and having an almost 5 year old that I feel has no respect or can be normal for 2 minutes is getting to the point where it is pushing me over the edge. I have started to feel my depression coming back but cant get 2 minutes to myself, i can't cry, I can't get upset, I have to take care of everyone and everything else. I have started to feel like I just want to lock myself in the bathroom take a cold shower and cry for two hours but can't even do that because my son can unlock the door. Are there any other mamas that feel like this?
22.07.2016
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angelao777
Angela·Мама троих детей
That's great! I certainly think that will help him get the amount of attention he needs without the distraction of dozens of other children. Prayers your way that things get easier for you!@bugmama
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Thank you @reneechristine
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reneechristine
No I have alooooot going on too but nothing like you are going through. God bless you lovie. Keep your head up and just keep reminding yourself that it can't be this way forever, continue being the strong woman you definitely seem to be. 💜
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Thank you @mamix3_ I will definitely be praying for you as well.
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Thank you so much @angelao777 I got him into a private school that has class sizes of 10 kids per teacher so I'm hoping that will help and they are one of the only private Christian schools that if the child has special needs they will accommodate the needs of the child with their own individual learning plan to keep them up with to par with the other children grade level wise.
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mamix3_
Cynthia Vargas·Мама троих детей
my 5 yr old is a handle full. he can't sit still for 2 minutes. he's all over the place can't hear door bell because he's at the door. walks into neighbors house like he owns it she loves him but I hate the fact that she doesn't believe I should discipline him when he does it because she against spankings foh. I sit in my room and cry at times because he's a handful. never stays quiet always has a response and is heavy handed when he plays. to fall asleep his ped. actually put him on 1mg melatonin because if not he'd be up to 3 4 even 5 am and up at 7 with energy for 24 more hours. but in other people's houses and school he's a saint. I'm up at 445 am every day and can't get to be till after 10 because if I give him melatonin earlier hell be up at 3 am. so I feel ur pain. I'll be praying for u and ur family
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angelao777
Angela·Мама троих детей
I went through the same thing with my son around the same age (4-5). He was too smart for his age and the school wanted him on adhd meds. They ended up giving him first grade work and it helped his behavior at school do a 360. At home we went through the county mental health dept and paid to take classes for parents with ADHD. That helped me and my husband come up with ways to work with him at home. We also consulted with the county psychiatrist but all they could tell us was that he's mastered manipulation and was too smart for his own good. I swore he was bipolar too because his mood was so inconsistent but doctors refused to label him at that age. What will help when your son starts school is having an iep done. It kept my son from being sent home everyday ( because he would go into school and say something to get thrown out). Thank goodness mine grew out of the behavior, he's 14 now and still has special Ed consult for his adhd ( they have it listed as other health impairment ) and for emotional disability ( because he still exhibits depression on occasion). I know what it's like though, I actually got my BS in Psychology and took child development courses to try to better understand my son because I was at my wits end. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here :)
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Thank you @mommachick2016
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mommachick2016
Arie·Мама четверых детей
hang in there momma my 5 year old has ADHD and I got him counseling through the child guidance in my area because we became overwhelmed
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
Yes but every doctor I talk to wants their school to recommend it.
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babyeaston191
Have you thought about putting him in counseling?
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
@morganmommy79, that's how I felt with my husband with my son. He has gotten a lot better but with the cancer he keeps getting infections and can't help me. I'm sorry he isn't supportive and helpful.
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bugmama
Alex·Мама двоих (8 лет, 13 лет)
@chinue, not always
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chinue
Chinue·Мама дочки (8 лет)
does he behave with the neighbors son?
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morganmommy79
Marilu·Мама троих детей
@bugmama, I'm not going through anything near what you are going through and I'm sorry you have to endure this! 😔 I'm just so exhausted with my husbands selfishness and irritability. I'm beyond sick of dealing with his hateful attitude. I cry all the time. I don't feel depressed or anything but he's driving me crazy. After 4 years I just don't see a change coming. Ugh
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