When you get to 40 weeks, should your midwife be checking you internally to see if anything has happened with your cervix or are you literally just left until 42 weeks? My community midwife told me not to go back to her a few weeks ago because I'm at the hospital every other day for monitoring and she said they can do all your antenatal checks there. well the hosp do my urine and blood pressure but they don't measure me, check babys position etc? Do I need to speak to them?
@ashleymoffat9, wow 3cm! So you should be having a baby soon!! Can I ask what pain you are in? Contractions? I'm due for my monitoring on Thursday so I'll ask them xxx
I think you should speak to them. I'm 38 weeks tomorrow and got checked yesterday but that was only because I was in pain and I'm 3cm dilated. They should feel the position of baby with their hands when you get monitored.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?

How do you like your steak?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
OK ladies how many days,weeks, or months do you have left to see your little ones 👶🏻😘😍❤️
Hope so. I had a sweep yesterday and had a show last night, I've been having irregular contractions but the pain I feel just now is like period pain, you should definitely ask xx @jetrum