It's not and its so hard to want a baby and not get it. I know everyone says it but it really is true when you just relax and enjoy life with your man and have spontaneous sex not planned it seems to happen. I was so shocked that I took 8 tests

@ella1007, I am happy with all of the niece's and nephews I have and all of my friends who have kids but it's not the same as having my own

@mrs_turner2015, I understand! I was to the point of being bitter because everyone was having babies but me. All my friends had kids and I was so jealous that I had a hard time even being happy for them

thanks @ella1007 I'm just ready for a baby now

I seen that before and it pissed me off too! I didn't choose to be a ftm in my 30's. I tried for 10+ years and did every type of fertility out there and suffered 3 losses. I had accepted it wasn't Gods plan for me and just started enjoying life. 3 months later I was pregnant. Of course high risk and I worried the entire pregnancy that something would go wrong. I prayed and prayed and now have a perfect baby girl at almost 35 yrs old. She is my miracle and it was Gods timing not when I wanted it but I'm so thankful for my miracle. Hang in there and keep your faith ❤️

thanks @desirechild

Seen this rubbish earlier! Pay no attention dear...someone's foul bullshit got nothing on YOU.

@sweetness_mom_of2, @abeemah @brafordfamily22 @babyeaston191 @adrien5.29 thank you all!!

Baby dust to you!

@mrs_turner2015, we can only hope

This is not even funny, its so insensitive.Not a lot of people choose to have children in their late 30s. I got married at 29 started trying right away, it's been 10years, various procedures, 5 ivf cycles, one baby that died at 1 month.

Just don't lose your faith, darlin. 💞💞

@babyeaston191, Yes you are so right I believe in God, an believe he does work in mysterious ways ........

@babyeaston191, I hope God has kids in my plan

@brafordfamily22, I'm sorry that happened to you God bless you an your family an that baby that's coming so sorry you had to go thru tht Congratulations now 😊

thanks @adrien5.29 all the support from this page is amazing

This is pretty fucked up. Smh I know people who were told they would NEVER have kids and have a couple now. God works in mysterious ways and has a plan for everything 💖

@mrs_turner2015,

Aww I'm sorry you feel like that an sorry pple make you feel tht way by this post some girls are just immature because having a baby at any age is a blessing age ain't nothing but a number just shows how experienced you are...Some day you will get pregnant it will b at the right time an will make you more than happy as can be do not let no one make you feel low or down about this because no one is perfect...Matter fact, my own mother had another baby after me (MyBrother) at age 45 an she an he is healthy an happy as can b I'm happy she had him he makes us so happy I love him doesn't matter of were 15 yrs apart.. just love life an be strong GOODLUCK mama all baby dust to you❤❤❤❤❤

thanks @brafordfamily22 i wish it was as easy as everyone says it is