my daughter will be 6 months soon and I was talking to my mother in law saying i was just looking at first birthday ideas for fun... she took over and told me she already had the perfect theme and blah blah blah. no. im sorry but she has taken over every first holiday with my daughter. she is not taking over her birthday.
my exs mom did this. I was pissed. it was a typical Mexican party with a bunch of drunk people. we didn't even sing happy birthday. I cried. we left "early" at like 8 at night. I wanted the party around 1 not 8 at night. I was so mad. and then she started trying to plan birthday 2 and I was like NOPE. Youre funny. good luck. grandmas can be crazy.