I know I'm kind if blowing up preggie right now but I can't sleep and I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant so I got questions! Ok so if you and your SO break up, do you all still decide on a name for baby? Or just me. I feel like I have final say in what it will be but I feel like he still has an input. it is his child too and I want us to remain on good terms for my sons sake.
@missjess, You have all the say in naming your baby, I too was curious about this question so I asked the lady who has helped me through my pregnancy (kinda like a case worker) and she told me that it was my descion what his name is
That's very mature of you! He has every right you do, as long as he takes advantage of that and doesn't act like a deadbeat. You two should come up with a name you both love and agree on, and you will.
Yeah I was considering still giving the baby his name as a middle nAme and having both our last names @averysmom8_3_16 and I think it's only right to include him on naming the baby because it is his baby too and it's not like I hate the guy and don't want him in our lives, especially our son. I want his daddy to be fully involved in his life regardless if we are together or not. My parents divorced when I was a baby but my dad was very involved in our lives growing up and still is at 28 yrs old.
@missjess, my son was gonna be a junior too but after we broke up his name will be a mix between his dad and my grandpas names. Avery Julius Pierre Morrison. dads name is Julius and my grandpa's middle name is Pierre. he will have his dads last name.
my so and i broke up when I was 6 months. it was nasty. i changed babys name but still included him in everything else and he still has some of dads name. now were on really good terms and everything is kosher. not rushing into getting back together but we've talked about it a lot lately. takes some time. still include him. its the right thing to do even when he acts like he doesn't care
It's his child too, you're right. He does have a say but you both need to agree!
Yea thats why I didnt name my son,a jr
Well my guy wanted him to be a Jr. And I wasn't to thrilled with it to begin with. And I certainly don't want him to be with us probably splitting up. @madibrice
yea im wondering the same thing. I think I might stick with my husbands pick
@pmlew96, yeah I kind of agree with me having the final say in what it will be.