Today is definitely a trying day for me. Being 31 weeks pregnant and hubby wanting to give up chemotherapy is extremely hard to deal with he has had it 3 days in a row and has two days to go and he wants nothing to do with going. I am scared that he's going to give up and I'm going to be left with 2 kids to raise alone. There is a guy from my grandmother's church that has cancer at 27 and he was just told that there is nothing further they can do for him he's only been married a year. It scares the crap out of me to think if my hubby stops treatments that it's going to spread and I'm going to loss him we've been together 9 years and married for 2. I'm exhausted with the fighting to get him to go to treatment and fighting with him because he feels like crap and then takes it out on everyone else. I understand that he is going through something that I can't even fathem but I'm 8 months pregnant taking care of our 4 year old and still working full time trying to make it so I can take my full leave that I need to try to destress. I never get time to myself to even gather my thoughts or cry and I don't know what to do anymore. I am 100% exhausted and just want to be able to relax. I truly just want to cry and cry for a long time. I don't usually cry but I'm on the verge of a break down.
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@bugmama, just sent up prayers for your family and the church family. Believing in miracles... 🙏🏼
Praying for your family hun and to be honest chemo is physically straining on the body and very tiresome so maybe that's why he doesn't want to be treated anymore. However, he has wife and kids to worry about so that's why he should continue to fight hopefully he will realize that🙏
I'm praying for you, your family, and him... Cancer is dominant in my family and I've seen some of the worst moments in my loved ones lives.. It's not easy being a caregiver. I pray he sees how much he's needed in your life and y'alls childrens life and it gives him strength.. And I pray you and your child continue to be strong and positive. I'm always here to talk if you need someone!
Hopefully everything will work out for u and ur family!! And just let it out it will prob help so much if u just cry it out .. Is there any. One that u can talk to ? By the way I am 32 weeks and I'm also having a little girl due in September
Thank you@jj032191 I know they say that God never gives you anything you can't handle but I'm surely at my limits my life has always been difficult but I just want a break from the stress, and if I ever had me time I could cry it's just my 4 year old is attached to my him the last few months with everything going on.
Omg !! Praying for you !! Stay strong and some times it's ok to just cry u are one strong woman !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My son is one year old and i want him to go back and get use to sleeping in the crib I put him in the crib and all he does is cry and I spoke to his doctor and his doctor said let him cry like in 2 or 3 days he should get use to sleeping on his own has anyone try it ?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
At What Age Should a Child Make Their Own Breakfast?
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
praying for him is all u can do at this point hun