apparently I'm the ugliest girl he's been with, fat, and a waste of his time....but when he wakes up he acts like none of that hurtful stuff was said last night.. :(
girl you gotta think about your child. fuck him and his new girlfriend if they are sending you threats put a restraining order against him. thats not love hun, a man who loves a woman will never do anything like that and im pretty sure your child doesnt wanna see the way his dad is treating his mom. put your foot down. ive been down that road and i had to leave and you need to do the same. of course its going to hurt because you love him but obviously he doesnt love you with threatening you and mis treating you! quit thinking about yourself and your boyfriend.. yourself and your baby comes first before anything else. im sorry if this does sound harsh but its best if you go your own seperate way. cause if my man ever did that i would leave him and take my kids with me and if he continues to act a fool id put a restraining order against him. put your foot down! @mommytobe1004 & @korahleah_11k is right by every word. you either do something about it or you dont because if you keep letting him do this, hes gonna keep treating you like shit.
hunny. im sorry and this is probabky gunna come off harsh and mean but you need to step it up for your child. this isnt about you or your bf anymore!!! you cant complain if you keep going back to the problem because "it kills you" your breathing arent you. you need think about your child. you really want him to see his mom treated like that. like i said ive8 been there and my life couldnt be better since i left. i know its hard but stop thinking about your self. and if hes threating you then get a restraining order. theres way to get away from it but it really sounds like you dont want too.
@mommytobe1004, girl you should leave. He is no good. Yeah of course it'll hurt because you've gotten used to him there and you love him but it is so obvious he doesn't love you. You don't do that to someone you love
I have left him before that's what kills me I left and he had new gf sent me pics and threats and then changed and we talked more and wanted to make the new us work for our son but now he wont leave the past in the past n it's killing me :( but i dont wanna leave again because it kills me more.@korahleah_11, @lovelymommylumps @mamesey @mommy_of_two1994
he cant get full custody unless he proves to the court that youre an unfit mother. and the baby has to be born to take you to court. and hes stupid ignore him how is gonna sit there and say hes gonna take custody but yet says your baby isnt his? im sorry but hes so full of shit. id be hurt too but you need to do you hes stressing you out @mommytobe1004
girl. thats not love! im sorry but thats is wrong and you need to leave before you bring a child into that relationship.. ive been there and i know its hard, but he will not take your child away. hes using that yo scare you. and if wants to deny the child then get a dna test they state will pay for it. theres so many places that could help you if you need it. get away!!!!
@mommytobe1004, girl sometimes you need to leave. and I think this is one of those times. This is a bad toxic relationship. Don't let him abuse you. I'm so so sorry and I know it's hard but do you really want that boy raising your baby?
used to be physical abuse and now just this. but he keeps saying he will get full custody but then say it's not even his baby when everyone knows it is and dates line up. it hurts so bad but I love him :( @korahleah_11 @lovelymommylumps @mamesey @mochi_jam @mommy_of_two1994 @naomiedgd
thats Abuse & especially he acts like he didnt do anything the next day. you dont have to listen to my opinion, but if i were you i would leave him until he grows some balls and learn to be a adult. my kids dad used to do that after i had my 1st born and he would act like nothing happen the next day. nope, we broke up and now hes the better man ive been wanting to have. he needs to learn to respect you or when baby is here hes not ever going to want to respect you because hes going to know that he can get away with it cause youre letting him. let him be this immature kid but just do you until he learns to grow up. it takes longer for men to realize and to open their eyes. but im so sorry! i wish you & your baby the best and dont stress over him. hes an ass & you shouldnt be stressing over his bullshit.
Abuse only gets worse. Especially if they act like they didn't do anything wrong. 👎
Yes, that is abuse. and that is not ok. No attorney how he tries to act like he didn't say it, you will never forget what he said. Tell him to fuck off
Uh fuck no. Don't put up with that. He needs to learn to respect you. My fiancé was kinda like that before so I left him for like a week. He came crawling back and stopped being so rude thank god.
That's emotional abuse hun.. I'm sorry you have to go through that. I'm not gonna tell you what to do but please keep in your mind thats not okay..
It may feel like it'll hurt you now. But eventually he'll be a mistake left in the past. I've been in your situation where it has taken me about 10 break ups before he physically hurt me. Now I'm so glad I've meet my husband. Just stay strong through the break up and you'll be over him in no time