Girl, half my family isn't allowed to see my baby because they don't respect me. I don't care if they're mad. I'm not going to let my baby get to know them just for something to happen later on and he ask where they all went. At least right now he won't remember them anyways.

@rockysmommy, I guess she'd be the last person to find out. It's hard but that dumb bitch would probably press charges against me and I'd like to keep a clean record. Lol. But seriously. At this point if they can't respect my one and only request of staying the fuck away from Haydyn, I don't need em. I love my brother in law, but if his dumbass keeps crawling back to this bitch and what not fuck it. I wasn't super close to him. But I feel bad if my husband's and his bond is over.

That's a terrible idea to shut their phone off over the weekend what if something happened. I can understand being nice at their house but I don't think I honestly could.

@rockysmommy, as mad and upset as I am over it. I just can't get myself to cause a scene over at Justin's parents house. I guess that's just the decent part of me. But by all means she's not allowed in my home.

@aboutellesbabe, I don't want to beat myself up about it cuz I feel like I'm not the only way who would feel like I do. Like I've been part of this family for almost eight years now. And this bitch is seriously so fucked up. Like I don't even know where to start. But anyways. SO is trying to be there for me. By all means I'm not gonna make him choose sides, although he kinda leans towards mine a tad bit more. But I seriously LOVE his family. I just think it's shitty how they're trying to to shove down my throat I need to give her a second chance and be civil with her, and not freak out when she wants to be near my daughter. Like his dad called today and was like "everyone in my household WILL be civil with one another." They're all pointing fingers at me cuz I'm the one causing tension. But his brother was the one who stormed into their house, yelled at my MIL and stormed out of the house cuz of my decision.

Every time she got near my child id take him away. And if she asked to hold him I'd tell her no. No ones going to try getting with Brandon then act like she's still welcome near my family.

@rockysmommy, see I'm glad I don't sound like I'm crazy. Everyone has made it seem like it's MY fault cuz I can't and don't want to be civil with her. Like I still tolerate being in the same room with her. But the MILLISECOND she gets near my daughter I have to refrain from beating her face in. Pulling shit like that is something I will never look past at. And I'm not gonna "play nice" cuz it's the grown up, and right thing to do.

Well first of all do not beat yourself up for feeling the way you do!!! If anyone is not thinking correctly it is his family for giving you shit for not forgiving her right away. I mean they really need to step back and put themselves in your shoes. EVERYONE would feel how you feel. Is your SO supporting you at least? I think he needs to step up and have your back. If they aren't letting you come over, then he should be like, I love this girl and if she isn't allowed then you guys aren't going to see me anymore either!

I completely agree with you. It'd be hard to forgive some bitch who tried that shit with my boyfriend and we're not even married.

@aboutellesbabe, she has. But I've become the kind of person that if you fuck up, I'll kick your ass to the curb HARD. The moral of it from my view is that you tried to get with my husband, and when it didn't work out, you can go back and say you were in the wrong mindset and act like nothing ever happened and think I'm just gonna get over it. Like I'm so fucking frustrated cuz this ENTIRE situation has just fucked me up mentally. And his parents are making it even worse. My anxiety has flared up so fucking bad and it just worsens every day.

Ew yea that's kind of fucked up. They should definitely be more understanding. If she apologized to you personally would you feel more at ease with the situation?