my son is a week old today. my husband and i got into an argument and said ever since the baby was born its all about the baby and i forgot about him...i dont see it and i just see it as im a new mommy with a son in the nicu but from mommies who have gone through this before...how do i handle it?
My husband had to take me to nicu , some nights I spent in the waiting room , when she came home , it was war but he needs to support you knowing your baby needs u
No you are completely right. Don't pay him any mind babe. He will eventually realize it's not just about him anymore. Y'all are a family and it takes getting used to, but you can do it :)
thank you! so im not being a bitch? and he said my hormones are no excuse for the way ive been treating him...like excuses me? i almost died and our son is in the nicu..plus hormones postpartum are so much worse @nikosmomma
I think a lot of nicu/preemie dads find it easier to get mad than to show their other emotions like if they're sad... Misdirected anger. No excuse. Life is about your baby right now. It would be about your baby even if baby wasn't in the nicu. Hopefully with time he will understand he is no longer the baby of the household. Im sorry you're going through all that. My little one had a 7 week nicu stay. Stay strong momma.