my son is a week old today. my husband and i got into an argument and said ever since the baby was born its all about the baby and i forgot about him...i dont see it and i just see it as im a new mommy with a son in the nicu but from mommies who have gone through this before...how do i handle it?
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My husband had to take me to nicu , some nights I spent in the waiting room , when she came home , it was war but he needs to support you knowing your baby needs u
No you are completely right. Don't pay him any mind babe. He will eventually realize it's not just about him anymore. Y'all are a family and it takes getting used to, but you can do it :)
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