noelle
nebanks1226
noelle·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

my son is a week old today. my husband and i got into an argument and said ever since the baby was born its all about the baby and i forgot about him...i dont see it and i just see it as im a new mommy with a son in the nicu but from mommies who have gone through this before...how do i handle it?

10.07.2016
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kimberly_preemie-mom
Kimberly ·Мама четверых детей

I think a lot of nicu/preemie dads find it easier to get mad than to show their other emotions like if they're sad... Misdirected anger. No excuse. Life is about your baby right now. It would be about your baby even if baby wasn't in the nicu. Hopefully with time he will understand he is no longer the baby of the household. Im sorry you're going through all that. My little one had a 7 week nicu stay. Stay strong momma.

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fifimama
Sarah·Мама четверых детей

My husband had to take me to nicu , some nights I spent in the waiting room , when she came home , it was war but he needs to support you knowing your baby needs u

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nikosmomma
Trudy·Мама сына (10 лет)

No you are completely right. Don't pay him any mind babe. He will eventually realize it's not just about him anymore. Y'all are a family and it takes getting used to, but you can do it :)

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nebanks1226
noelle·Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

thank you! so im not being a bitch? and he said my hormones are no excuse for the way ive been treating him...like excuses me? i almost died and our son is in the nicu..plus hormones postpartum are so much worse @nikosmomma

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nikosmomma
Trudy·Мама сына (10 лет)

He needs to grow up. Smh I'm sorry.

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